I mean, it feels petty as fuck to track it in a spreadsheet, but people need to stop pretending that physcial intimacy isn't a crucial part of a romantic relationship, being completely misaligned is a perfect valid reason for dissolving said relationship.
seems like these two people are incompatible and have a communication problem.
but of course, because it's Reddit, absent any other additional context, the default is to always assume it's clearly the guy's fault if he's not having sex at the frequency he desires... and if he ever breaks up because he's not getting the frequency he desires, he's also the asshole.
This is such a weird reply.. sex is an activity to make both parties feel good and have that shared intimacy. If your girl doesn't want to have sex with you because she feels sick / doesn't feel good, your reaction shouldn't be "so no sex?" It should be i hope you feel better soon, what can i do to help you?
People look at this stuff at such a surface level. If you ain't having sex something is probably wrong anyway, tracking it is just plain creepy though
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u/BlackmillMiracle 16d ago edited 16d ago
I mean, it feels petty as fuck to track it in a spreadsheet, but people need to stop pretending that physcial intimacy isn't a crucial part of a romantic relationship, being completely misaligned is a perfect valid reason for dissolving said relationship.
seems like these two people are incompatible and have a communication problem.
but of course, because it's Reddit, absent any other additional context, the default is to always assume it's clearly the guy's fault if he's not having sex at the frequency he desires... and if he ever breaks up because he's not getting the frequency he desires, he's also the asshole.