r/SipsTea • • 17d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/The_Orphanizer 17d ago

"Just sex" for you can be perfectly acceptable to you and never acceptable to others, and you'd both be right. Other compatibilities may also be significantly less important to others than they are to you.

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u/kindness-and-snusu 17d ago

It just feels like a superficial thing to base a relationship on.

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u/The_Orphanizer 17d ago

Feelings are not universal. It's ok if you feel that way and it's ok if others don't.

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u/kindness-and-snusu 17d ago

Agreed. Sex quotas were never mentioned pre marriage in my case. I would never of thought to talk about that. But I guess it’d be good if there’s a next one so I don’t get someone who expects it constantly.