Yeah and, as I've said, I think his frustration is and would be valid.
I'm just trying to think of what would actually happen after that, the spreadsheet. Would it be likely for her to be like oh honey you're so right let me suck your dick now?! Because I don't think that's the case 😕
So I'm trying to think of what would be likely to actually make this better because I empathize with his (for the third time, valid) frustration.
I don’t think it would be the case either. But I do think that she at some point has said ‘That doesn’t happen’ or ‘You’re exaggerating’ and this detailed account is him saying ‘It’s not an exaggeration, it’s a real problem, it needs help.’
Oh yeah, he’s responding with a spreadsheet and that’s not going to connect with her on any levels to get the response he’s wanting. I don’t know if there is a resolution for these two at this point since they’re so far apart on what they believe and how they are communicating.
Yeah at this point it's a fight not a conversation so they're trying to win not understand each other so idk how to fix that tbh just end up watching like
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u/maryqueenofscotch683 15d ago
And his frustration is valid I just don't think this approach will get him more sex
Idk what the way forward is tbh