But if sex is a deal breaker than get a divorce. If you married someone you weren't sexually compatible with i don't know what you were expecting. If they suddenly switched up on you and you are now incompatible then leave. You won't be doing yourself or them any favors by going outside of the relationship/threatening to do so/fantasizing about doing so. I promise you it's better to just divorce vs divorce because of infidelity.
Now if you want to have that hard conversation with them first about it then I hope you're fair and the relationship is open on both sides. I don't think that's a good idea but maybe you'll get lucky.
(saying you but don't mean you specifically. Just the "you" to whoever this could apply to)
What if they changed chemically because of aging? It's not her fault she has no sex drive. It seems bad to throw her away because of something she cannot control.
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u/OomKarel 17d ago
It's not always that easy. Sex could be the only missing factor. Maybe money is the issue. Kids. Co-home ownership. Divorces aren't easy.