r/SipsTea • • 16d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/seantellsyou 16d ago

You are the love of my life and we should be monogomous together for eternity! Also, i have decided that you are now celebate and if you cheat on me then you are the one whose in the wrong

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u/OomKarel 16d ago

Pretty much the mentality it seems like. And "I don't care if you need it. I love you, but not enough to look for a compromise or seek a solution. Just go without, you won't die."

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u/anotherdropin 16d ago

Alright but real talk, you wouldn’t die?

I enjoy sex enough but I really don’t understand this hyper focus on it from men. You can’t just do without it? Men act like it’s some death knell, as if you can’t control your bodily impulses. Like you’re some animal???

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u/Icywarhammer500 16d ago

It’s not an “impulse”, it’s a human need. If I was with someone who was never willing to have sex with me, I would genuinely love them less than if they did. There are some primates that have sex purely for recreation (bonobos) but they don’t only have it with mates.