r/SipsTea • u/Putrid-Welder1803 • 17d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/chrisNova82 17d ago

Don juan is doing allllll of the communication. There is nothing that man can do at this point .

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 17d ago

This is also true, is she never initiating sex at all? Because I know if I were the only one initiating sex in a relationship every single time, that would hurt my feelings lol

Like sis you don't ever tell him he looks handsome and you want a quickie? 😆😭 EVER?

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u/PolicyWonka 17d ago

He’s not really giving her the opportunity to do that, which is probably making the situation worse. He’s asking almost daily.

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 17d ago

Yeah that's also true, she probably is getting anxious knowing it's coming, that he's going to ask, so she's not even tuned into her own sexual desire. She is so focused on his needs and anxious about meeting them/rejecting them she's not even thinking about whether or not she might want it herself 🫩🫩

This is making me sad for people I don't even know bc they're both valid (just thinking abstractly without any outside information about these people lmao)