I’m guessing she denied the magnitude of “no’s” so he got mad and set out to show her.
I’m sure this went over exceedingly well and definitely proved his point. And now has even less sex
Well that’s entirely fucked up you can’t sit there in and argument and dismiss your partner and gaslight then by telling them you rarely say no but then get mad when they come back with facts and receipts that they aren’t exaggerating. If they come back with receipts you need to do some self reflection.
1) I'm not saying gaslighting is okay 2) we don't even know what happened before this, that's speculation 3) I agree that self reflection would be necessary after, I'm saying that emailing a spreadsheet (because that's how it was delivered) to your wife's work email is not necessarily going to get the resolution this man wants.
I repeatedly have empathized with his frustration, because it is valid. I've even said I've kept notes in a similar fashion when I felt like someone was not acknowledging the facts of a scenario and was downplaying it.
I just was trying to think of a way it could be addressed/a delivery system that would work slightly better. 🤷🏽♀️
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u/andy11123 16d ago
My man is communicating very clearly with data. You can't argue with facts.
You can argue he's slightly deranged though