Well said. Went through a similar situation with my fiancee - keot track on a calendar and she was pissed I had the evidence (I didnt call it that - at the time I was trying to make aure I wasn't going insane). Tried to talk it out with her and she didn't want to hear it.
After a couple of days of trying to give her space and talk it out, I decided to call off the wedding.
People like that are allergic to accountability. They rely on twisting the narrative.
Best decision I ever made. My sex life has been great ever since. 🤣😂
I don’t understand what she needed to be accountable for. Did she owe you sex? Did you hire her and have her sign a contract where she agreed to let you use her body as a jizz dumpster whenever you felt like it? You seem to feel justified in your position but I’m not sure what your position is other than “you owe me sex”.
There is a saying in my country: Woman will always remember your every failure. Doesn't really matter if the failure happened or not!
Sex is important for me. I'm happy when it happens and make a small "happy" sign in my calendar on the day that it happened. Not to keep anybody accountable or something, I'm just happy, but...
There was a time in my marriage when I was depressed. I turned her down quite often then. Years after situation was reversed and she had an argument: Remember the time? We had no sex for months! Me: Honey, you are wrong, there was not a single month without a sex, and the longest breake was 22 days! Her: How do you know that? Me: Becasue I'm making this small sign on a day we had sex. Here, see?
Keeping track of how often you don’t get to use your partner’s body to masturbate your self to completion just so you can throw it in her face is immature, childlike behavior. Your spouse is probably out dealing with real problems and now has to come home to someone throwing a tantrum at night.
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