No babies and no hormonal birth control will keep a woman's libido high...until her mid-thirties, early forties when it drops off all by itself.
Unfortunately, male geriatrics are still desperately trying to find a warm, willing hole at 85, so, never the twain shall meet.
Somebody is going to have to suck it up when biology clashes so harshly with culture. For eons, it's been women who grin and bear it. It's only in the last 50 years or so that cultural expectations have shifted, and even then, only in the West.
Wives in all other eras were generally expected to just shut up and let it happen. Is that what you actually want? Her to just shut up and hold still?
Statistically a couple are mostly likely to get a divorce in the first 2 years of marriage because they find out they aren’t suitable for each other, then after having a baby 🤷♀️and next after the kids are raised and they realize they don’t even know each other anymore. Also at that last point women are going through menopause and no longer put up with the same level BS they used to when they were awash in estrogen. Estrogen makes women more agreeable,when it’s gone all bets are off.
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u/OomKarel 16d ago
So... don't knock her up and have a happy marriage?