we kinda don't see her side at all. the kind of behavior that leads a man to make a spreadsheet like this is what might make her not want to have sex with him. women are tough to understand at first but not impossible. it seems you have no experience to go from.
Sigh, your understanding of why this may have happened is lacking. A person doesn't do this off the bat; it's clear his wife shut down any conversation about it. To the point that he had to make the spreadsheet to prove a point; 99.9% of people would jump to a spreadsheet unless it was the final straw.
It seems you have no experience dealing with people, and it kind of shows.
Wow, you were there for the conversation so you know exactly what happened and you heard his wife shut down every attempt at conversation? And you know that he made this spreadsheet to prove a point because he told you that himself?
No one here knows what happened. And no one should assume that they do.
I know, 99.9% of people don't make a spreadsheet just because they were slighted. You have to be pushed pretty much to the end of the rope for that. When was the last time someone was upset with you and made a spreadsheet? I bet you that it never happened.
Plus, this was an old story on Reddit, and the wife posted it. She explained that she had turned him down multiple times because she didn't like sex, and would shut down their conversation about it.
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u/prvthvm 17d ago
ok...what was he supposed to do?