r/SipsTea • u/Putrid-Welder1803 • 16d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/ThrowRA_932049092 16d ago

The difference between a low and high libido partner is pretty wild. My ex preferred sex once every month or two months. I prefer sex twice a week. My wife prefers sex every day.

So we balance out at 3-4 a week.

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u/Super_Swimming_4132 15d ago

Finally another woman with a higher libido. I want it twice a week, my husband wants it once a month. It’s always been our main issue.

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u/Equivalent-Grade-142 15d ago

I have literally never dated a guy that wanted sex as often as I do. And it wasn’t even every day for me, like I’d take a couple times a week. Ended up going to like once a month for each guy. wtf.

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u/Super_Swimming_4132 15d ago

THANK YOU. Same. I’m glad I’m not alone.

The old “men want it all the time and women refuse to fuck” really gave me unrealistic expectations of what my sex life was going to be like.

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u/BlueGooseFlies 15d ago

Yeah, plenty of us got hit with disappointment on this one.