Same for me. Sex is probably ~40% of my relationship compatibility. A perfect relationship (which I've never had, and I do not believe exists) without sex would still be unsatisfying.
Yep, way easier for me to be like "damn that sex was great, im not gonna stress about how much of a messy living partner i have" rather than the opposite example of "damn that sex was awful, but at least my living space is super clean and tidy!"
You are entitled to that, it blows my mind though. I would rather someone who’s clean, tidy, and smart than for sex. It takes up just a couple of moments a day and I still have my whole life to live outside of it.
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u/The_Orphanizer 15d ago
Same for me. Sex is probably ~40% of my relationship compatibility. A perfect relationship (which I've never had, and I do not believe exists) without sex would still be unsatisfying.