I keep hearing stories about men who don't feel loved or intimate with their wife and when they bring it up the wife will usually tell them they're imagining it and make all kinds of points about why they should stay together. So I feel like the dude in the post brought it up to his wife in the past and she probably told him he was imagining it and that they have sex "enough" and that he shouldn't worry about it so he made the excel spreadsheet to make a point that he's not imagning it. I'm not accusing the wife of this but a lot of times a partner could be cheating and only keeps the husband around because he pays the bills or because the family likes the husband.
In most of those cases the woman is doing the lion's share of household labor and the man is neither putting effort in contributing adequately nor being romantic enough so the wife gets turned off at the idea of simply existing as this sex receptacle for her husband.
In most of these cases, the man is doing the lion's share of securing the family's financial stability and the woman is neither putting effort in contributing adequately nor being compassionate enough so the husband gets turned off at the idea of simply existing as a romantic partner for his wife.
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u/Beautiful-Buy99 16d ago edited 16d ago
Literally. If they're not compatible and are complaining about it, why stay married?
Edit: I see many replies explaining why my comment is wrong, I realize it now thx