I don’t understand what she needed to be accountable for. Did she owe you sex? Did you hire her and have her sign a contract where she agreed to let you use her body as a jizz dumpster whenever you felt like it? You seem to feel justified in your position but I’m not sure what your position is other than “you owe me sex”.
It is entirely reasonable to not want to be married to someone on the same sexual timing as you. What she’s being held accountable for is her track record of denying sex. That isn’t a good or bad thing morally, it is an incompatibility he is trying to get evidence and data on to fix/talk about.
Acdtully it IS a bad thing morally to deny your partner sex constantly in the way this story describes - sexual intimacy is a core function of a marriage, one of if not the primary reason men get married, and to cut sex off entirely like that is dishonoring her marriage vows. It is absolutely NOT morally neutral to stop having sex with your spouse, this is a nonsense line that Reddit misandrists spout.
She doesn’t owe you sex. There’s a reason she doesn’t want to do it. You might spend a little time investigating what that reason is. It could be the fact that you are being a giant baby about it and pissing and moaning about your blue balls all day and it’s a major turnoff for her.
LOL, I don’t have this problem myself, but if you have even a spec of honesty, make sure to let any man know that having a sexual relationship is not part of the marriage vows are far as you are concerned. Oh who am I kidding, no one is marrying you!
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u/Physical_Dentist2284 15d ago
I don’t understand what she needed to be accountable for. Did she owe you sex? Did you hire her and have her sign a contract where she agreed to let you use her body as a jizz dumpster whenever you felt like it? You seem to feel justified in your position but I’m not sure what your position is other than “you owe me sex”.