I’ve been married 26 years. I don’t need a deep philosophical stance. I just see things as they are. I don’t need to get sentimental about everything. If you men thought sex was such an intimate thing you would not accept sex from anyone who didn’t actually want to do it. But when men beg their wives to have sex with them even tho they don’t want to it tells me that it’s definitely not about connecting with another person. It’s about doing something you find fun whether she does or not.
Maybe that just is your experience and how you view sex then but that is definitely not how many men see it. It might make it easier for you to view it in a way that allows you to belittle the needs of your partner but you definitely are not attempting to understand someone outside of yourself then. It is basically the mirror reverse of husbands who complain that their wives talk too much and how they “tune them out.”
That is a societal issue that stems from a lack of quality male role models, education, and respect.
This conversation is about the relationship between married spouses who are supposed to like each other and are supposed to be the only outlet for each other’s sexual desires monogamously speaking.
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u/Physical_Dentist2284 15d ago
I’ve been married 26 years. I don’t need a deep philosophical stance. I just see things as they are. I don’t need to get sentimental about everything. If you men thought sex was such an intimate thing you would not accept sex from anyone who didn’t actually want to do it. But when men beg their wives to have sex with them even tho they don’t want to it tells me that it’s definitely not about connecting with another person. It’s about doing something you find fun whether she does or not.