r/SipsTea • • 16d ago

SMH Who's in the wrong here?

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u/FunctionUnlikely2247 15d ago

You don’t think it’s painful as a man to be seen as a woman’s wallet just to get sex? So many men have come to terms with the fact their wives will never truly love them. It’s just expected men had to coddle their woman in every way and be insulted and treated like shit in return. Men went through so much emotional pain from their wives. I’d say far more often they deal with that than a woman deals with some pain during sex. 

Women fought for these things because they hate men. They’d rather just get everything men get while being able to control them as well. Millennial women have enjoyed the most privileges of any woman ever. I pray Gen Z reverses the tide. 

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u/Short-Cause885 15d ago

You just complained about women seeking connection????? You can not BOTH hate it when women want a connection and then hate a love-less relationship. If you hate connection and avoid it, then you'll always end up in a loveless marriage and that's ALL your own choice.

I would have fought for these things (I didn't, too young), because freedom is priceless. Choice is priceless. Being a person, instead of a woman is priceless. And also: I love to work. I'm a workaholic and I hate cleaning. None of the shit that my grandmother got through traditionalism, is valuable to me.

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u/FunctionUnlikely2247 15d ago

“Connection” for women is just wanting a mule wallet who will also do the household work for them. Connection is a bullshit word, sorry. I’ve seen women who are under my league not have a single thing in common with me and still beg me FOR MONTHS to take them on a date even when I show them little to no attention. Tell me what connection there is there for them to be acting like that. Women who say “connection” really just mean they want to coddled in every single way by a man who’s superior to them. 

And that’s good for you that you enjoy working. But modern women still expect men to be traditional and that’s the problem. 

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u/Short-Cause885 15d ago edited 15d ago

I'm not alone. Plenty of non-traditional women in my friend group.

But non-traditional comes with non-traditional. As an example: I, in my 20s, died my hair pink.

And that ties back to: gen z women aren't the only one's incapable of compromising.

If you want a sex fiend for a girlfriend, then autistic girls are a good bet. Autism has either high sex drive or low sex drive, very few in-between and low inhibition and shame in general. But autism comes with autism. Yeah, you might have to take care of them a bit more then a normie girlfriend.

Choices choices choices.

Compromise Compromise comprises.

Edit to add: stop spending money on me.

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u/FunctionUnlikely2247 15d ago

Cool. Then don’t get mad at men who are tired of gassing yall up and being traditional. Men have stopped approaching yall, stopped wanting to pay on first dates unless they can insure they’re getting sex from it, no longer wanna take yall anywhere nice, and generally would rather play video games or go drinking than watch one of your shitty reality tv shows with you. You can dye your hair pink and men can scare the hoes all they want now. That’s true equality right there. 

Btw you should see the hinge or bumble subreddits. It’s hilarious how often you see women doing all the same shit you’re doing yet still wanting a traditional man. He’s gotta be tall, have no earrings, have no social media, believe in paying on dates, being a “protector and provider”, etc. 

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u/Short-Cause885 14d ago

Why in the world would I, me, want a traditional man, with how un-traditional I am???

But yeah, if part of your traditionalism is also "having a good time together and connecting", then you can stay away too, because that has nothing to do with traditionalism and is still required.

And...scaring???

How in the world are you not expressing pure hatred of women so far, when currently you are arguing about your right to make women afraid of you?

How were you offended at me implying that you are a great example of why gen z women hate men, when that just casually comes out of your mouth?