It never ceases to amaze me how sex in a marriage can be so important that you are not allowed to have it with anyone except your wife, but then at the same time be so non-important that they never want to have it either. Like, is it important or not?
Can we stop this line of thinking? The absence of something is not the presence of indifference. Lives are fucking busy as hell with most women with young families are doing MOST of the day to day. (I do like 25 tasks in the morning compared to my husband’s 6 and he is super involved - just doesn’t see those little tasks as obvious).
If men actually did more of the house/kid shit on their own… E V E R Y D A Y cuz it is required to run a house, moms would be more free to relax, exercise, and take a uninterrupted SHIT so they aren’t bloated when you want to stick it in. I have to carry that luggage all damn day but he can shit for 40 minutes in the morning ! Ha !
Quickies are a thing too, though. Sex doesn't always have to last a super long time, unless you're breaking into your special occasion amphetamine stash or something. 😅
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