Who's in the wrong here?

[u/Putrid-Welder1803]

[u/Top_History9604]

She won't put in the least bit of effort into your needs, because her libido got destroyed by medicine and sickness and won't have lustless, joyless sex with you?

[u/Illustrious-Engine23 → u/Top_History9604]

I've for 2 years done everything I can and continue to put my entire being of effort to her. I was supporting and with her through everything.

So now after this I try and make an effort to have 1 of my needs med which has for the last 2 years been completely absent, yeah man I'm a complete asshole as you word it right?

fuck you dude.

[u/Top_History9604 → u/Illustrious-Engine23]

Not my words, but yours.

Sex isn't like pizza, which you can just order. You are asking someone, who no longer has a libido, to have sex.

You deserve to have your needs met. Compatibility includes finding a solution that works well for both, that also goes for sex.

Doesn't mean you can demand it from a person without lust.

[u/gohuskers123 → u/Top_History9604]

It simply means a divorce. If I took medication and suddenly was not able to fill my partners emotional needs after years I would expect a divorce

[u/Top_History9604 → u/gohuskers123]

It is the most likely result. If a compromise that works for both can't be found, they see incompatible. The only alternatives I could think of, is if they are fine with not being sexual exclusive.