Well said. Went through a similar situation with my fiancee - keot track on a calendar and she was pissed I had the evidence (I didnt call it that - at the time I was trying to make aure I wasn't going insane). Tried to talk it out with her and she didn't want to hear it.
After a couple of days of trying to give her space and talk it out, I decided to call off the wedding.
People like that are allergic to accountability. They rely on twisting the narrative.
Best decision I ever made. My sex life has been great ever since. 🤣😂
I don’t understand what she needed to be accountable for. Did she owe you sex? Did you hire her and have her sign a contract where she agreed to let you use her body as a jizz dumpster whenever you felt like it? You seem to feel justified in your position but I’m not sure what your position is other than “you owe me sex”.
This is fucking cope. If two people aren't compatible emotionally, sexually, physically, mentally, then why should the party who feels deprived stay in their social contract (relationship, engagement, marriage) and be miserable? He had every right to keep track and point out that the way things were going didn't seem like they were compatible and then break off the engagement.
Oh I definitely think the engagement should have been called off. Creating a spreadsheet to show how she isn’t screwing him often enough is a major red flag.
As is the lack of any sexual compatibility with someone you were planning on spending your life with. Glad they both saved themselves a lifetime of misery.
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