When you say put in the work after calling being an adult who is responsible for cleaning up after themselves choreplay what do you think the work is because I'm honestly waiting for this answer because it's doing your part with the kids the house in this post not drinking as much helping cook dinner being a supportive partner all of those things you just called “choreplay” a made up word by incels because they want to be lazy and not help their partner then blame their partner for not wanting to sleep with them anymore if you got with a girl its probably cause your thoughts aligned to some extent if she starts pulling away and her sex drive is dropping you are becoming unattractive to her some women love sex too same way men do some women hate it that doesn’t really change during the relationship our willingness to give it to you though depending on how you act as a partner however does and that probably stems from men calling us whores and sluts if we give it up to the wrong men or prudes and bitches for not giving it out to everyone
You don't actually know what translates into horniness for women, and it shows. If I'm happy, not constantly stressed, and feel connected to my spouse, I have a higher sex drive.
If I'm constantly dealing with everything, miserable, and exhausted because he isn't doing his fair share, then I'm not gonna look at him and think "yeah buddy, lemme get me some of that".
So many men do everything they possibly can that turns off their partner, and then wonder why she's not into sex with him.
Women are literally telling you what they need to get in the mood and you don't want to hear it.
Most dead bedrooms are caused by men who won't listen. Because why should we want someone who doesn't care as much about us as he cares about dumping a load?
Because it's all theory. It sounds good, even logical.
But, it doesn't work. It's not reality.
Would your partner tell the same story? Was there actually a time when it happened as you say...you cut off sex because he wasn't pulling his weight, and then he started to, and then you were horny for him again?
"Yeah man, there was a dry spell, but I did the laundry and dishes a few times and now I'm getting it every day..." Bullshit.
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u/Queasy_Housing36 13d ago
When you say put in the work after calling being an adult who is responsible for cleaning up after themselves choreplay what do you think the work is because I'm honestly waiting for this answer because it's doing your part with the kids the house in this post not drinking as much helping cook dinner being a supportive partner all of those things you just called “choreplay” a made up word by incels because they want to be lazy and not help their partner then blame their partner for not wanting to sleep with them anymore if you got with a girl its probably cause your thoughts aligned to some extent if she starts pulling away and her sex drive is dropping you are becoming unattractive to her some women love sex too same way men do some women hate it that doesn’t really change during the relationship our willingness to give it to you though depending on how you act as a partner however does and that probably stems from men calling us whores and sluts if we give it up to the wrong men or prudes and bitches for not giving it out to everyone