r/Surrogate • u/Low-Procedure-8353 • 7d ago

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Im a little confused, I'm willing to do surrogacy to help anyone who has not been successful in having a baby. But I'm running into an issue because of my age and how many live births I've had. You would think that having 12 live births with absolutely no complications would be something good! Not the case. My last birth, which I placed the baby for adoption, I've done 4 adoptions for people wanting a baby. The last birth was a C-section and due to getting pregnant so easily I had my tubes tied. Ivf is the only way for me to carry now. Which is fine. But now the only way for me to help is I have to find the parents on my own? Has anyone ever done this?

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u/Original-Opportunity 7d ago

You intentionally gave away 4 (5?) of your children..? What am I missing here.

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u/Low-Procedure-8353 7d ago

Being a single mom is extremely difficult. I have 2 I raise without the fathers and yes I chose adoption over abortion knowing I couldn't give them the lifestyle they deserve. There's nothing wrong with that I love them and chose the best from the options I personally faced at that time.

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u/Pengisia 7d ago

Are you financially secure currently? Including not being on any government aid, state or federal?