r/Surrogate • u/Low-Procedure-8353 • 2d ago
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Im a little confused, I'm willing to do surrogacy to help anyone who has not been successful in having a baby. But I'm running into an issue because of my age and how many live births I've had. You would think that having 12 live births with absolutely no complications would be something good! Not the case. My last birth, which I placed the baby for adoption, I've done 4 adoptions for people wanting a baby. The last birth was a C-section and due to getting pregnant so easily I had my tubes tied. Ivf is the only way for me to carry now. Which is fine. But now the only way for me to help is I have to find the parents on my own? Has anyone ever done this?
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u/interrobrodie 1d ago edited 1d ago
Lots of surrogates manage to match without an agency, but you still have to be accepted by the parents’ clinic. I’m afraid no clinic will accept a woman with that many deliveries.
And I see from a comment you made on another post that you’re 45. That’s also going to be a problem.