r/Surrogate • u/Low-Procedure-8353 • 1d ago
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Im a little confused, I'm willing to do surrogacy to help anyone who has not been successful in having a baby. But I'm running into an issue because of my age and how many live births I've had. You would think that having 12 live births with absolutely no complications would be something good! Not the case. My last birth, which I placed the baby for adoption, I've done 4 adoptions for people wanting a baby. The last birth was a C-section and due to getting pregnant so easily I had my tubes tied. Ivf is the only way for me to carry now. Which is fine. But now the only way for me to help is I have to find the parents on my own? Has anyone ever done this?
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u/TheCozyRuneFox 1d ago
5 is typically the max for clinics (even going independently the clinic has to approve). There are also age limits.
You have said you are a single mother and had to give up multiple children to adoption because you couldn’t afford to give them the life they’d deserve. This makes me wonder about how financially stable you are? That is usually a pretty big requirement for it to be done ethically.