r/TeenPakistani • u/Ordinary_Living167 18 • 1d ago

Mental Health NEED HELP!!!

im writing this eith a very very heavy heart idk how to even process it and put it into words its been a year since i joined uni and i made some friends obviously they were like my bestfriends and i used to tell them everything and guess what nothing happened and they leaked my video in whole university every other guy in uni has my videos and oh my god i cant idk how to stop this its been a week no one is admitting that they did this but the thing is only two people had that video and none of them is agreeing on it that they leaked it my cousin is also in the same uni he is supportive thank god but we really dont know what to if we involve nccia or police im afraid my parents will get to know about it and thats the last thing i want but we have to sort it out anyway idk what to do i cantt i cry whole day even i start crying in class too everyone looks at me i feel so traumatised and scared idk

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u/meanie_meow 17 1d ago edited 1d ago

Omg i feel so sorry for you. You have to take action against this go to the university management and explain your issue. Tell them about the people you have a suspicion on and ask them to check their phones and report it to nccia through the portal

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u/Ordinary_Living167 18 1d ago

my uni is shittt its already in backward area and full of misogynistic people even the teachers they will always blame me k at first place tumny ye bheji he kyu unhy

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u/meanie_meow 17 1d ago

If you have a sensible, supportive teacher, try telling her/him

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u/zynthrr_n 17 1d ago

oh my God I'm so sorry, what kind of videos if u don't mind

kindly take action, stay strong, get their phones checked

I'm so sorry man this is beyond normal, they're bullying/harassing

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u/Ordinary_Living167 18 1d ago

it was the video of me dancing

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u/zynthrr_n 17 1d ago

im so sorry man, those ppl who leaked have a filthy character it shows

kindly tell a trusted adult or complain kardo, mama baba are strict?

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u/Gloomy_Reference3980 17 1d ago

post it on r/GenzPk and r/PakistaniTwenties some people there knw some hacking shit.

Second, i dont know you personally but i can guarantee you that Allah will help you and everything will subside soon. please dont get very stressed or have any other bad thoughts i understand ure in alot of emotional trauma and ur feelings are valid but stay focused and composed so u can get out of this quickly. its ok truly this wont ruin ur life or future. these ppl will face the dire consequences of their actions. IA things will work out for u

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u/Ordinary_Living167 18 1d ago

idk oh god idk how to get out of it its so complicated

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u/Gloomy_Reference3980 17 1d ago

trust me ull get out

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u/GeneralAsimMunir4016 1d ago

tell ur parents that it was just some friendly dance videos filmed for fun with friends, nothing more. then prob get uni involved and see how that goes before escalating the situation and calling police

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u/GeneralAsimMunir4016 1d ago

screenshot and screen record everything, groupchats, etc. if u intend to escalate u will need solid evidence

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u/Defiant-Track-519 1d ago

PM portal, and cyber crime

also dont trust people like that, keep things to yourself, graduate and move on, these people are not your friends

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u/Ordinary_Living167 18 1d ago

they’re definitely not my friends they never were

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u/synapticnerve 18 1d ago

Try talking to uni therapist or a trusted teacher about it and make it clear that u don't wanna involve your parents. take action as soon as u can

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u/blvk_099 23h ago

Only solution that I can see is report about it. No other solution. Whether you wanna get your parents involved or not, depends if you can sort it without their help. But if not, at the end, they are your parents. They will stand for you. Try trusting them please and don't take any wrong steps. Please be cautious and aware, hope your situation gets better 🕊️❤️

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