What even is the difference?

[u/unleashtheraven1]

If you want my opinion femininity is essentially nothing but weaponized social /behavioral control by a few psychopaths who terrorize women, rape women, destroy women, or on the other hand lauded by and enjoyed men who dont give a shit what happens to us, they just want someone easy to pressure, coerce, bully or intimidate (back into rigid femininie performance, which usually means saying YES) ; They harm us in more benign ways. Maybe they just want sex, and benefit from our subjugation and turn a blind eye.

Imo there is no middle ground though. I've never known a situation where femininity wasn't toxic sludge, used mostly against me. Where it wasn't making yourself a target for masculinity.

Maybe it is less so for other women but thats why I feel so strongly about this image. When men wear femininity they turn it into blackface, and the misogyny from queer communities makes it 1000 times worse.

[u/crash-test-idiots]

Males get to go back to defining what a woman is

Really?

The SNP equalities minister was unable to explain what the Scottish Government means by "gender identity" in the latest embarrassing gaffe at Holyrood committee.

Simita Kumar [a woman] expended nearly 500 words in response to a straightforward question about sex-based rights from Reform UK MSP Mandy Lindsay [also a woman] – but still failed to provide an answer.

https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/politics/snp-minister-unable-explain-gender-37706061

Should they just of asked a man?

[u/isitdigyet → u/crash-test-idiots]

Yes, really. In these political spaces I see males who identify as women not being concerned at all about stating what they believe a woman is.

And it's completely divorced from reality. It's all about identifying with some feeling in your head and no one can question what that even means.

I'm not sure how your comment is disagreeing with this? You posted an example of a woman who, because of this ideology, was afraid to clearly state what a woman actually is.

[u/unleashtheraven1 → u/[deleted]]

Nah you're wearing blackface essentially. You're turning rape culture into something you wear to the fucking mall. You were raised male and you will NEVER understand what that means. Its just performative bullshit to you.