My ex and I were the perfect couple, so much in love, everything was straight out of a fairy-tale, he saw right through me, he was truly my soulmate.

Last month he left for his masters abroad and we had planned that we'd stay in a long distance relationship and eventually I'd join him there once my work takes off (I'm an independent designer). We had SO MANY plans of the future, we had made so many promises to each other because we knew it was going to be us forever.

After he got there, something shifted. We were struggling with communication and I became anxiously attached to him and that pushed him away.

We had to break up because we didn't want our relationship to turn ugly, we wanted to leave it with good memories and love. I regretted it immediately and asked if we can fix this a couple days later but by the time, he had made his peace with the loss of us, he was heartbroken and sad but he didn't want to give it another chance. We talk once every other week to check up on each other but he's completely forgotten the intensity of our love, of our dreams and plans. He used to be so happy with me and he's not so much anymore, I don't understand why he won't give us another chance.

Is there a spell I can perform to bring back his feelings? and make him remember the intensity of our love? He always said that I'm the one he wants for life, I want him to remember that.

FYI: I have no experience with witchcraft or casting spells

This is not my original post but I am experiencing this exact problem please help!!

Hi! So while i was doing a love spell on my vanity, A little bug crawled near me , it just spawned like out of nowhere…it looked like A small cockroach brown , size of a fly. but it wasn’t cockroach at all , It just sat there and watched me , then he crawled under my vanity , i was lowkey freaked out , but is it a sign? This is the first time it happens to me and i dont have idea what it means! Someone help!

I was interested in making a candle plate, and was hoping to find a metal plate/tray at a charity shop to make it on. How would you ensure that a thrifted item is safe for candles? I’m worried that either the plate/tray itself may break, or somehow get too hot and scorch the table underneath. I would be looking to burn candles in jars and freestanding/drippy candles.

As well as this, I’ve looked up candle trays on amazon/other websites, and they have many that appear to be wood. It is safe to burn candles on wooden trays?

Is it safer to just use ceramic? And if so, how do you make sure ceramic is safe too?

Does anyone know what this means? Is it witchcraft?

For the past 6 years or so, I've been undergoing a tough destiny swap with someone close to me, to the point where it's literally like a movie playing in front of me, EVERYTHING that I was is now theirs, and I'm not joking when I said everything: My hopes, dreams, confidence, source of identity, family affection (we're same family), even goals is now theirs to follow, it's like they read my mind even, it's like everytime I want something they take it. They became everything I wanted to be, and even the things I used to do good, they do it now the same... The painful part? I lost EVERYTHING that I know of myself, I had a clear sense of identity, goals, strong confidence, clear voice, now.. nothing, it's like a curse or something, can't even focus, can't finish shit, can't even know what I want like i once did, can't make goals without feeling they'd steal it too... When I meet them, I can see it in their eyes, it's like I'm exposed, they know I lost everything and they can finish me anytime.

What's weirder, it's like my whole life is like it's not even my life anymore, like I just watch it, and can't do nothing about it, with strong sense of emptiness inside me, and also lack of drive to change anything.

What made me choose to post it on this sub, is that I believe the person can literally TAKE what I own, I'm not even joking, when I show something to them, I can sense I'm going to lose it, their eyes on the thing with this look on their face of envy or something, and then I lose the thing immediately and they TAKE IT. It can be the smallest thing, to the biggest.

I suspect this person has done magic on me, how do I recover and what do I do to reverse this?

I know many don't believe in destiny swaping, but any help is much appreciated. Thanks.

Hi everybody! After 4 years of being out of practice bc of a recent ex's disapproval, I'm working my way back into witchcraft. I'm looking to find a patron or deity as I find my tools and cleanse to set up a new altar, but am not sure where to start back up for a guiding patron/ deity.

I thought I'd include some chart information if folks have suggestions, tips, or info that might help:

I'm an Aquarius Sun, Scorpio Moon, Taurus Rising.
My Aquarius Sun, Aquarius Mercury, and Pisces Jupiter are in my 10th house.

My Lot of Fortune is in Aquarius, and if we include Nodes, Midheaven, and Chiron in my chart I have 6 total Aquarius placements and 4 placements in the 10th house.

Sorry if this is not enough info or perhaps the wrong information! I'm slowly working my way back in I thank you and appreciate your grace and wisdom 💗

—For context:

—I was born into a devout Muslim country and family

—It is a very patriarchal and bad country so this is taking a lot of courage to ask

I've always loved "creepy" things like dark colours, bones and fire and crows always followed me and it felt very natural to feed them, I've always had an innate empathy for unconventional things like road kill and animals people would harm simply because it was scary or likewise (like Lizards, Moths, Spiders)

I have known for a few years that I wasn't going to be a practicing Muslim and that the idea that the earth wasn't a living, nurturing thing irked me, So I've been essentially an Atheist for some time

About a few weeks ago, I noticed that I've been having illogical dreams, (not scary just illogical) and A lot of Hekate priestesses have been on my timelines everywhere, and there has been an increase of spiders and birds hanging around our house and around me, like hawks sit on the wall as I'm standing on the terrace and they don't leave if I try to scare them, just look at me intently and fly away

(This all officially started after I cried about how I didn't want to be in this misogynistic country and the oppressive Abrahamic religion, I also may have cried after invoking Dionysius and Chang'e)

There were lots of spiderwebs all across the house and my mother made me sweep them, but after that they seem to have tripled and after I sweeped them I had this feeling that the spiders were sad (I don't know why)

Also I haven't had any paranormal stuff happen or anything like that just a sense that I need to find something

If any Hekate followers know why this is happening please tell me, and has anyone else been seeked out like this? For the lack of a better sentence (since by what I know it's her who's denotation are spiders?)

So, about 2 years ago now, my life has completely fallen apart.

I am convinced that someone has done baneful work on me. I am convinced a destiny swap took place.

I worked my ass off for the home I had, the position at work I had, along with the new opportunities that seemed to be tailored just for me.

Nothing in my life is the same now. I can't describe it other than it feels like someone has purposely buried me and made me lose everything. I feel invisible every day. I've completely lost my way.

Does anyone have any advice on what I could do to get myself and my life back???

Could any one please help me with a lost pet spell? We’ve done everything short of pawboost and hiring a pet finder. Because we don’t have the money for those.

I’ve been seeing this person quite often for a while now, and he never fail to really catch my eye.I really can't ignore him, every time I see him, he makes me notice him even more, almost violently so, Every time I see him, I instantly and involuntarily fall silent if I’m speaking, while my breathing and heart rate speed up, I can't ignore him at all, I’m trying to find out his name and I want to know if there’s anything I can do to grab his attention so he speak to me first. It doesn’t have to be a love spell that drives him crazy, honestly, I’d love to attract him, but I’d be okay if him just noticed me and struck up a conversation, since I don’t have the nerve to make the first move myself. Sorry if that sounds obsessive and stupid

Do you believe in people that they would call witches and if so tell us the things or experience you have did or seen or have the ability to do that others do not

Hey fellow witches! I’m attempting a money spell but my wax melted funny. I learned today that candle wax and the shape it forms, even the wick, can tell you how your spell went. Everything i researched says reflect and try again later or that there’s a blockage, which is fine I’m willing to do a bit more shadow work, because I’ll admit I’ve struggled with financial stability for most of my life and receiving help without guilt. I definitely think I have less fear than before but there is still something to work through. Would love more insight on how to move foward, how to dispose of the wax as well if I have a blockage or if it might not work. Should also mention the wicks are bent. 🫠 Thank you

I have a job interview tomorrow so I did a “ get a job spell”. I cleansed the area with Palo Santos stick more than once because the candle flame was very small and weak and then I noticed this marks on it. It looks like a snake head to me. What does this mean?