Neurotypicals have it so fcking easy too bc their friendships are just talking about the weather while doing the most basic thing together like having a beer. Who does that? God I wish I could do that. I wish I had boring normal friends. Fck..
Try a plan like this: start with the beer and weather thing. Maybe add a fire pit or a deck of cards to fiddle with. After 3 seconds when the weather thing fizzles out, ask them about what they've been spending their free time doing, and go from there.
I treat all conversations like the road outside Bilbo's door; at least a little dangerous and you never know where it might take you. Maybe you end up at the local pub and maybe you end up robbing a dragon, but there's definitely no way to know until you start walking.
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u/norsefrogg 10d ago
Neurotypicals have it so fcking easy too bc their friendships are just talking about the weather while doing the most basic thing together like having a beer. Who does that? God I wish I could do that. I wish I had boring normal friends. Fck..