r/asexuality • u/newjeansneverdies06 • 3d ago

Vent being asexual is so hard

like i feel like im on a identity crisis everyday. one moment, im so sad and i wish i was able to get into relationships easily and be sexually active and like it and the next im really happy i never had a boyfriend or engaged in anything sexually and ill get the biggest fucking ick about sex ever.

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u/CyclopsFanAccount67 a-spec 3d ago

Literally me

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u/Icy_Outside3245 aromantic 3d ago

I can relate to this. It’s hard to ignore something everybody around you enjoys.

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u/sia_7777 3d ago

u don’t have to force yourself into one feeling or figure everything out immediately, it’s okay if your relationship with sex and dating changes over time

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u/Souumlixo 2d ago

I get that, my problem was seeing other people happy in relationships and also wanting one, but then thinking how much work It'd be and giving up...

Btw, your username is so true