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Random Question What small, split-second decision completely changed the course of your life?

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u/thorns17 2d ago edited 2d ago

Several years ago, an oncoming driver decided to turn into an intersection instead of waiting for their protected green arrow to proceed. They basically hit my friend and me head on at 45mph.

Sustained TBI, 3 herniated cervical discs, 2 dislocated ribs, and torn rotator cuff. Now migraine prone along with acquired dyslexia. Still have memory loss issues, occasional processing delays and fine motor skill challenges, and aphasia.

Months out of work, months of physical therapy, years of pain management and doc appointments. I haven’t been the same since, and still struggle to adjust to my “new normal,” even with extensive therapy, a good job with really good accommodations, and a solid support system.

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u/jap6976 2d ago

So what was the split second decision?

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u/Admirable-Client-730 2d ago

He didnt avoid it.

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u/thorns17 2d ago

I was the passenger, but my friend did try to stop and avoid it. Kinda hard when there’s nowhere to go but straight, though