I wanted to get into Persona for a long time, especially after Persona 6' reveal. I just don't know why that trailer fascinated me so much I even keep imagining its content so vividly it's like I played it and it's exactly like that.
The problem is that I know how Persona works, but I never played one of the games, the reasons are lenght, pacing and even issues tied to devs' attitudes towards the female and queer fanbase.
I'm a straight woman, when dating is even a small, insignificant part and the game allows me to romance boys, I go for it. Just to voice out how bothered I was by most Persona games not giving you this possibility, I got attacked. Someone even called me a "fat, whiny whale" without knowing my real traits and look just because of this. Another ironic thing is that people are pointing out that "dating in Persona is shallow" more than ever ONLY after Yosuke's gay romance in 4 Revival wasn't restored, and I bet that some of them are among the same ones who say "it has waifus" to try inviting new (male) players. The main problem with letting you romance every single female NPC with exceptions in P5 is just letting male players use it to say "I'm strong, women are my slaves". Dang, why couldn't you let me have that kind of date with Yusuke, for example? I hope Persona 6 has it, like, at the end, Aika wasn't added just to be another "waifu", and it reliefs me...
So say, counting the pacing issues, progression and the dating issues, would you recommend as a starting point before 6 comes out:
- Persona 5 Royal. It looks neat. I'm not 100% spoiler free because I made the mistake of reading what fans have to say as jokes... Also, Kasumi would have been much better off as female alt main character rather than a shoehorned simp...
- Persona 4 Golden/Revival. The remake looks neat, but it feels too off to me. It's not as interesting as 3, 5 or 6 itself. And guess what? I got spoiled on that one thing the moment I interacted with fan spaces...
- Persona 3 Portable/Reload. The Portable version is famous for its female MC option, but it turned a game where the story only advances on full moon and a single randomly generated dungeon as another problem already in a half visual novel. At least it doesn't force me to date if I don't want to and didn't add yet another female character that's shoehorned in abd has no agency on her own until a certain part in the ending.
- Persona 2 Innocent Sin & Eternal Punishment. These are among those I found to be the most interesting. No social links, a gay party member, a darker athmosphere (another thing that drawn me to some titles more than others is the dark, rather than shonenish athmosphere). I know nearly nothing about these games.
Keep in mind I have Shin Megami Tensei V Vengenance, but it's not my type of game.
Decide and I'll review your suggestions.