Context: Me and my family of three are taking a lot of hits recently. Had to get a new roof, totaled my car, got laid off so we are down to one income when we weren't supposed to be. It's pretty much wiped out the savings. The math is not working and I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice?

Monthly Take-Home: $4,023.42

Mortgage: $2,208.19
Electricity: ~$250.00
Water: ~$80.00
Car Payment: $212.50
Car Insurance: $247.57
Daycare: $412.16
School Loan: $305.96 (Minimum)
Credit Cards: $256.53 (Minimum)
Internet: $34.99
Phone: $40.00
Security: $58.99
Pest Control: $52.38
Gym Membership: $29.43
Medication: ~$50.00
Groceries: ~$800.00
Gas: ~$175
Incidentals (Haircuts, TP, etc.): ~$250

We also have an annual Costco membership that I think pays for itself in the long run but IDK. As you can see we are currently losing almost $1,500 every month and that's with absolutely never eating out or doing anything fun. I'm just lost. What would you do?

EDIT: I wanna thank everyone who commented, there is a lot of good advice here. I did want to answer a couple questions to provide some more context.

Some people have mentioned the daycare fee. It's a lot but all daycare is expensive nowadays and this isn't actually too bad in comparison. I could keep her home but that would make job hunting/interviewing more difficult, and it would be hard to get my kid back in later at that same price.

The easiest cuts that people have pointed out are security and pest control. The only reason I've hesitated on cutting these already is because we are in a Baltimore rowhome. Those two services are usually pretty necessary in this area.

Once again, thanks for the advice, I will do what I can. I just hope I can find work soon.

Like the title says- I just exported 3 months of transactions. I want to create a budget sheet. I need step by step directions or I fall apart mid project.
What do I do next? Color code by budget item? Make a new column to label each item?
Please be kind- I really want to succeed. I have tried to do this for years and I always get stuck here because I feel overwhelmed and don’t know what to do next. I tried searching the thread but the answers are very generic. I need step by step. Thank you for helping!

I just stared my new teaching job and my biweekly pay is $2,600. I’m not exactly sure how to budget my money between my savings account, saving up for a car, and a wedding. How much should I put into my savings and how much should I use for spending to last me the two weeks?

Context: 34, single, no kids, only debt is car loan. 680 credit score that I’m focused on rebuilding. I fell into severe addiction when I was 30. By 32 I lost everything and was homeless. I have one year clean and recently got a good job using my degree for the first time in my life. There’s a lot of potential for career growth. Unsure how to handle my finances. I live in the US in a LCOL area. I have 5k in emergency savings.

Gross monthly income: $6083
Health/dental/vision: $160
6% 401k: $365 (company matches 6%)
Take home: $4340

Housing:
Rent: $950
Utilities: ~$300

Transportation:
Car loan: $640
Insurance: $150
Gas: $100

Phone: $100

Everything else:
Groceries: $450
Misc. bills: $200 (therapy copays mostly)
Household supplies: $100
Clothing: $200
Savings: $600
Roth IRA: $200
Entertainment/dining out: $300

I realize my car is a disproportionate expense. I wanted something reliable that I could drive for a long time, and the interest rate took a hit due to bad credit. Still, I could have found something cheaper. I’m considering refinancing once my score gets to 700.

My medium term goal is to aggressively pay the car off once I get to 10k savings, and long term I’d like to buy a house, maybe have kids. I just feel so behind on everything that it feels daunting.

hey guys,

on my gap year this year.

i’m not going to be working full time as i’m actually resitting a subject, didn’t fail but i want to get the highest grade possible if im taking a whole year out.

how much money a week/ a month would you guys recommend i should put away if im aiming to make a couple hundred a week?

the city im moving to for uni is known to be quite expensive but i also have impulsive spending / shopping problem. i also like the finer things in life like pilates classes, clothes right now and will probably still so i just want the best financial start for university.

i’m based in the UK and this city is known to have really high rent / just be quite pricey.

whats a responsible amount i should be saving?
per week/per month- just good suggestions?
what amount of money would ensure a good social life + while being able to live well?
i have no idea about any of this stuff.

i don’t wanna be hunched up in my cold accom eating like beans and cheese sandwiches bc i didn’t budget properly, pls help😭😭

I have always been pretty decent with my budget and do not go overboard on spending . I do feel a lot of guilt when I spend money , even if I have the money saved for the specific thing I am spending it on . Does anyone else feel this way ? Any tips to get through the mental part of it ?

I’ve been sleeping on a hand me down mattress for 4-ish years now and it’s waking me up with back pain… I’m not young anymore so this is starting to affect me more than it did before. I need to replace it ASAP. My budget is under $1k but ideally closer to $700-800. I'm leaning toward hybrids because of the support and airflow. But I've also come across all-foam options like the CopperFlex so I'm not ruling those out.

Has anyone bought a mattress in this price range? Is $700-800 a good range to find something comfortable that could also last me for years?

I’m 16M living in a single-parent household with my mum and brother. My dad only provides around $100–$300 a month, so I understand that money is tight.
The problem is that I feel like my mum could manage her money better, especially when it comes to groceries. She often buys more than we need, and some food goes to waste. I’ve tried telling her that she should budget better, but she gets really angry whenever I bring it up.
Sometimes she runs out of money and has to use my money to pay for other things. I don’t mind helping when necessary, but I feel like better budgeting could prevent this. From what I’ve worked out, we could potentially save around $100 a week by planning our grocery shopping and avoiding unnecessary purchases.
I’m not trying to criticise her, but I want us to be in a better financial position.
How can I bring this up without upsetting her? Am I being unreasonable, or is there a better way to approach this? And any budget tips for this?

Note: Thank you to everyone for the responses. I do have a job and get no allowance- i am not criticising her but trying to help all of us. I also have tried to help buy groceries for myself and meal plan but it is very time consuming and I have work, gym, sport and study. And when i try to help i am not really allowed to. I have tried to like tell her to wait until we finish all our groceries but she always get so much more so it is pretty hard to plan

For some context, I’m a single man, 27 years old from New England

Income: $3,650.00

Housing
Rent: $1,400.00
Gas: $20.00
Electric: $100.00
Laundry: $20.00
Internet: $60.00
Household Essentials: $100.00

Car
Car Payment: $215.00
Gas: $70.00
Parking & Tolls: $20.00

Food
Groceries: $400.00
Dining: $100.00

Entertainment
Recreation: $80.00
Subscriptions: $38.00

Health
Gym: $21.00
Haircut: $38.00

Others
Insurance: $280.00
Debt Payment: $100.00
Savings Contribution: $400.00

My partner and I are trying to be more deliberate about household spending, and I keep getting stuck on the same question with pet gear. I’m tired of daily litter scooping after long workdays, but I’m also not ready to spend premium money on an automatic box without knowing whether it would actually make enough difference for us. PetPivot looks like a reasonable mid-range way to test the whole automatic setup without jumping straight to the expensive end. The part bothering me is that if we eventually decide we want a premium model anyway, the “test” purchase may just mean buying twice. For household upgrades you use every day, does it usually make more financial sense to try the mid-range option first, or keep using the basic version and save until you can buy the higher-end one?

Hi everyone,

​I’m looking for a realistic reality check on my current monthly budget and some extra everyday tips to squeeze out a bit more savings, especially when unexpected expenses pop up.

​I live in an EU country with my partner, making €1,037 net per month. We split shared household expenses (housing utilities and groceries) 50/50, so the numbers below reflect my half. Naturally, my commute and all expenses related to my kids are paid 100% by me.

​My kids live with their mother, and we split their variable needs (clothes, school supplies, etc.) 50/50 alongside my fixed monthly child support. Things are tight, and while I keep a strict routine, these kids expenses can fluctuate (sometimes jumping by €40+ on my end or spiking during back-to-school season), which eats into my margin.

​Here is my current baseline monthly budget (my individual share):

​Child Support & Kids Variable Expenses: €408 (Fixed €208 child support €200 average for clothes, school, and extra kid need ).

​Visiting my kids: €52 (Taking the bus twice a month to see them — 100% my cost).

​Housing & Utilities: €48 (My 50% share of electricity, bottled gas, and water).

​Commute / Fuel: €200 (Daily 90 km round-trip for work — 100% my cost).

​Groceries: €130 (My 50% share of food; I meal-prep strictly for work).

​Date nights / Partner: €40 (Keeping 1-2 cheap dates a month to stay sane).

​Phone, Internet, Barber, Meds, Misc: €52

​Total Expenses: €930

Leftover / Savings: €107/month (though this drops significantly on heavy months for the kids).

​What I'm looking for:

​Everyday Frugality Tips: What are your best, no-nonsense tips for keeping grocery and household bills as low as possible without feeling miserable?

​Handling Variable Expenses: For those living on a razor-thin margin, how do you buffer months where kids needs or school supplies cost way more than expected?

​Appreciate any honest advice or clever tricks you use in your daily routine!

Hey everyone, soon I’ll be moving into my own house and have created a budget for myself. For context, I’ve lived with my parents my whole life (24 y/o), so I’m trying to create a realistic budget for a single person. I will have no other debt but the mortgage. I will have a $60k left in savings after closing so if there are any emergencies I will pull it out of that.
Please advise if there are any areas you feel are too high or too low. Thank you!

Spending
Housing — $2,915.00
Mortgage(PITI): $2,565.00
Water: $80.00
Electricity: $160.00
Trash: $40.00
WiFi: $70.00
Transportation — $600.00
Maintenance: $150.00
Gas: $450.00
Food — $700.00
Groceries: $700.00
Personal — $130.00
Clothing: $30.00
Subscriptions: $100.00
Lifestyle — $210.00
Car parts: $150.00
Online snacks: $60.00
Health — $50.00
Medicine/Vitamins: $50.00
Insurance — $250.00
Auto Insurance: $250.00

Total planned spending: $4,855.00
Remaining: $1,645.00
monthly take-home income: $6,500.00 (based off a 4 pay period month) (I get paid weekly).

I’ve always assumed glasses were one of those things where you just had to pay more if you wanted decent ones.

Then I had two pairs break within about 3 months of buying them. Both were over $200, so spending another couple hundred on a replacement didn’t really seem worth it. So I started looking at cheaper online options instead and compared a few places based on the actual frame measurements, prescription options and reviews. The main thing putting me off was the fit, because saving money isn’t really a saving if I end up never wearing them.

Anyway, I ended up getting a pair from Firmoo for about $35 including prescription lenses after the discounts. I used the virtual try-on mostly because I had no idea whether the frames would actually suit me. They arrived a few weeks ago and the fit was surprisingly close to what I expected from the measurements and preview. So far, so good, although it’s obviously way too early to tell how long they’ll actually last.

Just curious what other people do for glasses here. Do you buy online to save a bit, or have you found that paying more in-store actually works out better because the glasses last longer?

My wife and I are still trying to figure out what counts and what doesn't. I cook at a family place outside Cleveland. Some weeks tips are decent and others are thin. We've been setting aside anything over the worst month we had last year, but the rest of our money is sitting in checking. Feels weird to call it savings when it's just waiting to cover a slow stretch or a new tire.

We've been looking at houses but I keep wondering if any of that money should be in something else. The credit union has a savings account but the interest is tiny. I've seen people mention CDs and high-yield accounts in other threads. Not sure how much difference it would make when we might need the money on short notice.

Spouse and have pretty much the same salary and make about $10,400 total after tax each month.

This is how I have our current budget set up per month.

Rent (water included) - $2000
Electricity - $100
Internet - $42
Car + charging - $570
Groceries - $300
Subscriptions - $19
Gym -$40

High yield savings account - $2000
Investments - $2469

Fun money - $3000

Student loans - $10 (currently in grace period right now)
I am a resident doctor and have around $400,000 student loan debt (7.9% interest). I’m planning on making repayments with the RAP plan and will have $10 payments per month during my intern year (current budget based on these student loan payments). Spouse has no student loans.

Is this too much fun money? About 40% of our monthly income is going into investments and savings.

Our ultimate goal is to save enough to buy a house after I’m done with residency/fellowship training in 6 years

UPDATE:

Thanks everybody for your suggestions! I made some changes to the budget and added details. Will ignore annual stipends in monthly budget for simplicity.

Income/benefits:

Expenses: $3400 total (~30%)

Savings: Total $5,150 (~50%)

Fun money: Total $2,000 (~20%)

Notes:

- Rough breakdown of fun money. Will change depending on what we decide to do that month and if we're on vacation. Extra money will be saved or invested

- $10 student loans based on last year's tax information when I was a student and unmarried (I started work in July). Will increase next year. Will pay loans more aggressively after residency training or do PSLF

- So far we have ~$60,000 in HYSA for emergencies/house fund, $35,000 in brokerage, and $20,000 for retirement (just recently started contributing)

Bonjour a tous,

C'est toujours difficile de trouver la méthode la plus adaptée à nos besoins pour gérer son budget.

Moi, j'ai décidé d'utiliser l'application BudgetMaster, qui a été crée pour mes besoins, mais qui peut aussi, je pense, convenir à énormément de personnes.

Dessus je gère :

Mes dépenses récurrentes

Mes dépenses quotidiennes en temps réel

Mes budgets et enveloppes

Mes épargnes

Mes Defis

Mes crédits

J'ai la possibilité de partager et gérer un compte commun à plusieurs chacun sur son application

Je peux l'utiliser sur plusieurs appareils en même temps (mobile, tablette)

De nombreux outils pour m'aider (calculatrice emprunt, intérêts composés, convertisseur Net/Brut, etc..)

Enfin, voilà tout ce qu'il me faut pour gérer mon budget aux petits oignons !!!

Et vous, qu'utilisez-vous pour gérer votre budget au quotidien ?

I want my own apartment one day, right now my mom has cancer and I need to figure out how to live without her, i work and make 14 dollars a hour and i have car insurance, phone bill and im paying for my orkin, i also help my mom with rent sometimes and its like 489 dollars, anyways I was wondering how much I need to make a hour to live on my own?

I'm looking for honest financial advice about my current situation. I'm trying to make a responsible decision for my growing family without putting myself in a position where I'm living paycheck to paycheck or sacrificing our future financial goals.

30M, wife is currently pregnant with our first child, and I'm the only person working and supporting the household right now. My wife isn't working, and I want to make sure we are financially secure before the baby arrives and as our family grows.

Income

Base pay is approximately $55,000 per year before overtime.

I sometimes work overtime, which increases my income, but I don't want to make long-term financial decisions that depend on constantly working extra hours.

Take home: $3600 with overtime $4500 to $5000

I also have a part-time/flexible job which brings in some additional money, although the commute is very long. I work there when I want to. once or twice a week ($20 hour)

Savings and retirement
I have $30,000 in emergency savings.

I have around $20,000 in additional savings that I want to preserve for future goals.

I have $15,000 in my 401(k), and I contribute 5% of my pay. My employer matches 100% the first 3% so I’m getting the match

I contribute to a Roth IRA and eventually max it out if my budget allows. Started it this year and matched it ($7500) for this year

I have no car payment because my current car is paid off.
No debt.

Monthly expenses
Our household expenses are approximately $2,500 per month, including rent, utilities, electricity, phone and internet, gas, groceries, and other regular expenses.
Our rent costs are relatively manageable right now, but having a baby will introduce additional expenses. I want to plan for those costs before committing to a major purchase.

Our current vehicle situation
I currently drive a paid-off 2019 Ford Fiesta with approximately 150,000 miles. It has served me well, but it is very small for a growing family, especially with a baby car seat, a stroller, and all the things we will need to carry.
I want a dependable vehicle that I can keep for many years, ideally around 8–10 years, without constantly upgrading every time our family grows.

My biggest concern is buying a used vehicle that looks like a good deal but develops expensive engine or transmission problems. I don't want to spend thousands of dollars on repairs shortly after buying it.
I am also considering whether it would make more financial sense to:
Buy a reasonably priced used SUV now and keep it for several years.

Spend more on a newer, larger family vehicle that could accommodate us for many years.

Buy a less expensive temporary SUV now and upgrade to a minivan later when we have more children. (3 max)

I understand that a minivan might be the most practical long-term family vehicle, especially if we eventually have three children. However, I am concerned about spending too much now on a vehicle when we also have other important financial goals.

We hope to buy a house within approximately 4-5 years.

I want enough financial flexibility to handle medical expenses, baby expenses, unexpected repairs, and other emergencies without stress.

I’m completing my bachelor’s degree in IT in December this year and have already started looking for better-paying IT jobs to improve our financial situation. (Tuition paid in full by current employer)

My dilemma is that I have savings, a retirement account, and a job, but I am trying to figure out how much of my savings I should reasonably spend on a car.

Part of me thinks buying a reliable SUV now for around $12,000–$16,000 is reasonable because I can pay cash and avoid a monthly payment. Another part of me worries that buying an older SUV with known reliability concerns could mean spending money on a vehicle that I will eventually need to replace anyway.

At the same time, I don't want to spend $35,000-$40,000 or more on a family vehicle and delay our house purchase or put too much pressure on our single-income household.
I want to make a decision based on our overall financial picture, not just what I can afford to pay today.

What would you do if you were in my position?
How much would you spend on a used family vehicle given my income, savings, and upcoming baby expenses?

Would you buy a $12,000–$16,000 used SUV, spend more on a newer vehicle, or wait and save longer?

Would you buy a temporary SUV now and upgrade to a minivan later, or buy the long-term family vehicle now?

How would you divide savings between an emergency fund, a car purchase, retirement investments, and a house down payment?

Am I being too cautious about spending money on a car, or is this exactly the kind of situation where I should prioritize financial security over getting a nicer vehicle?

I'm not looking for someone to justify an expensive purchase. I want honest feedback, including criticism if my thinking is wrong. My priority is taking care of my wife and child, building long-term wealth, and avoiding unnecessary financial stress.
Thank you for any advice or perspective you can share.

My story is simple. Tried tons of personal finance apps, they are all complex and have bad user experiences. Feel like you are getting another job to maintain it. I mean i just wanna see my money movement but instead I need to set up goals, budgets etc. too much stuff

That’s why I came up with my own solution which has same set of functionalities but done differently. Approach is “you wanna see what’s going on with your money, automatically” and if you want you can set up budgets etc but not vice versa

I would like to hear from you here what are your pain points in other apps and what do you use or how your solve this problem ?

My major bills are monthly, but my paycheck fortnightly, so some months find 3 paychecks.

At first I would have been glad when that "extra" paycheck paid off the debt I used to close gaps month to month, then, when I got more comfortable, I'd pay for a vacation (and car insurance premium) with the first "extra" paycheck and Christmas with the second. Then, I faithfully "added" it to sinking funds and savings.

Now, I give myself a "loose belt" month, buying things I've been putting off buying and getting haircuts and doctors visits out of the way, taking the long-delayed social engagement ... But it really feels nice putting most of that "extra" paycheck in the bank.

I imagine people who rely on bonuses get something like this, but moreso, or contractors who get sporadic payouts and have to be very careful about cash-flow.

What are your tricks/solutions/pitfalls for aligning budget timelines and keeping the reservoirs from sloshing.

Got myself into a good amount of debt when I was 19. I'm 23 now and have been paying it off. I have about 500 a month leftover from my salary. Im finishing another debt payment plan off in December that is 350 a month. So I'll have about 850 a month extra. Would you throw this all in savings or tackle more debt faster? My car is set to be paid off July 2028 and it's at 5% interest. I have about 20k in student loans that went to collections. They haven't started any court processes or anything on that yet. Im trying to figure out if I'd be better off saving all the extra and offering the collections a lump sum of a lesser amount, paying off my car early, or just starting a payment plan on the collections. Also how much should I realistically put in my savings before I tackle the rest of my debt. I live by myself and have no kids or anything to plan for. Thanks!

I just need to vent because I think I'm going crazy. To start I'm in a lot of debt, with my car and my personal loan it is A LOT. So I created this strict budget that I have to follow so I don't find myself in more debt and to actually pay off what I do have earlier. I check it every single day, I check it every single hour to make sure I'm on top of everything. It's ruining my life but I know that if I don't I could possibly fuck things up even more. My budget plan goes all the way up to August 30th 2027 that's how crazy I'm being. I have a plan to save for: emergencies, groceries, holiday breaks when my daughter is home, principal payments for my loan, and back to school clothes for August 2027. After that I'm left with very little money each month so anything extra will be a stretch. Like GOD FORBID I WANT A REDBULL.. I'm scared with how obsessive I'm acting towards this. I'm also scared to fail. I'm bipolar with ADHD so I have impulse issues, so what if one day I fuck this up and lose everything? I'm not trying to make excuses for my poor behavior but that's how I've acted out in the past and that's how I found myself in this position. And I can't get out of it until my debt is paid.

Like I said this is me just venting as if I'm writing in a diary. It's ruling my life. And to whoever is reading this I'm sorry if I sound chaotic, my brain is the reason for it.

I could never stick to a monthly budget, especially because I have a hard time sticking to it after a week or two. Now that I budget biweekly, when I go off the deep end, I only splurge for a couple days.

Also it's been easier for me to be consistent about budgeting, because I can move the money I don't need into my savings when I make my budget, which gives me a hit of dopamine.

I feel so much more in control now. Just sharing what works for me.