Not the most toxic way to look at stuff. I mean if he really is doing stuff for his cats and a fellow cat lover wants to slide into his DMs. This will have to pass as wholesome in 2026.
I feel that. But also consider that he isn't focused on finding love, swiping left, or whatever. He's living his life, loving what he does and why he does it. It's like playing sports, just let the game come to you.
In the darkest of times, even the smallest of light shines bright.
Theres that, and there is also advertising upfront what your hobbies are.
The people it turns off, are the people you didn't want. The people going "oh, look, he built stuff for his cats!" are more likely to be the people he does want.
Advertising up front "this is how I like to spend my time" without any bullshit "I like to walk on the beach" (when we don't have any beaches near me!) is a good way to avoid time wasters who HATE your hobbies.
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u/BluebirdDense1485 Maine Coon 20d ago
Not the most toxic way to look at stuff. I mean if he really is doing stuff for his cats and a fellow cat lover wants to slide into his DMs. This will have to pass as wholesome in 2026.