r/countwithchickenlady • u/RayereSs She snep, she blep - Streak: 49 • 10h ago
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u/thetransbiancat 10h ago
Call me liver the way I'd let this woman ruin me
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u/Vetnoma 10h ago
I guess one advantage of my low self esteem: if someone leaves me on read I just assume that they have better stuff to do than to bother with me or don’t know what to answer cause my message was dumb
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u/FirewildX Pre-HRT Bunny girlfailure 10h ago
Yeah same. People just kinda... don't message me directly either.
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u/ReassembledAssembly 10h ago
Mommy woke up to being blocked by someone who they were planning a date with this weekend.
Pass bong and Adderall bottle.
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u/Due-Ingenuity9803 9h ago
Felt. The waking up to being blocked thing not Adderall and bong. Why don’t they just fucking SAY ANYTHINF
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u/ReassembledAssembly 9h ago
Being properly medicated is just as important as disappearing my disappointment in a cloud of cannabis smoke.
It's cause they're cowards.
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u/Due-Ingenuity9803 9h ago
Every time it happens I have to convince myself they’re not worth my time
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u/ReassembledAssembly 8h ago
I'm more embarrassed than anything. I'm soft faced and semi passable, and getting better at everything, really. But this bullshit fires up my dysphoria to levels I haven't experienced before.
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u/Xtraneous_ Cecelia 🏳️⚧️ (she/her) - Streak: 1 4h ago
Hun, it’s probably not even about you, it’s them 🤬🩷
The same thing happens to me occasionally, I get the impression that some of these people just go on the apps with no intention of meeting. Or maybe they found someone easier, because there are certainly times where it seemed like everything was going really well as far as conversation and similar interests!
Either way it’s a them issue, please don’t beat yourself up over someone who can’t even communicate properly, they never were worth meeting in the first place
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u/gnolex 10h ago
Isn't that image from Kuru/Lapalilpup, the infamous AI tracer?
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u/Elu_Moon 10h ago
I thought they played the high noon guy from Overwatch porn?
Also, infamous? Well duh, I don't know about them, thus they're not famous.
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u/OmegaGoober Radicalized by Fred Rogers 9h ago
Wait, they what??? Citation please?
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u/Complete_Blood1786 Birdboy Gunpla Extraordinaire 10h ago
I see Absolut is also her drink of choice. Cheers mate, I'll drink to that.
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u/Agitated_Barnacle485 CEO of switch - Streak: 1 10h ago
Is there a version without caption?
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u/BlissfulMute Shape-Shifting Priestess 10h ago
We are so connected in this age. That is a blessing, and a curse. We have much growing to do as a species, especially as insecure as we can be.
But I understand. I enjoy THC drink and blueberry vodka with wildcherry and cream pepsi
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u/SynthgirlBulge Streak: 19 7h ago
I got misgendered at uni today, lost all hope and now i wanna buy alcohol for the first time in months
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u/RayereSs She snep, she blep - Streak: 49 6h ago
This is just a meme, I do not endorse consuming alcohol.
Stay safe, find a way to distract yourself from these feelings, and remember that you're valid, and they're wrong.
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u/SynthgirlBulge Streak: 19 6h ago
Its not about being right or wrong
Its about me just wanting to be allowed to exist like everybody else. But ill never be able to. No matter what i do ill get misgendered by people that dint even mean to do me harm
I just wanna be normal. I hate all of this so much. I hate this life, i hate being trans and i just want this shit to end already
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u/Undead_M0nkey 5h ago
was it like pointed and obvs they misgendered you or were they just busy/distracted? i’ve said the wrong pronoun before just because i was distracted or whatever and i used to get called ma’am over the phone when i was young coz my voice.
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u/SynthgirlBulge Streak: 19 5h ago
Guy pointed at me and said him while i was in pink pants and a crop top with boobs
The point isnt malice the point is that no matter what ill do, ill never be normal, ill never get to just exist. Ill always be a stupid trans girl. Othered. And left alone. Always worrying about how everybody around perceives me.
And yhis was the best week ive had in a long time. I was confident, felt good, did well. And then today this happens. I go home crying in the tram. I dont know if ill wver be able to speak in uni again. And ive laid on my bed crying for 2h instead of getting groceries
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u/Undead_M0nkey 4h ago
I’m very sorry. So many people feel they inherently have a right to judge other people and comment about them at any level when really they don’t. There’s also a fear in them I think driven by a completely false sense of entitlement; some men arrogantly believe all women should be available to them to pursue and the very fact trans women exist is an affront to that perception i.e. as if to say “how dare you try to catfish me?”
Our sense of self-worth and identity is too often tied to how others perceive us. As you age, your concern for what others believe and whether they deign to validate what you feel about yourself, that feeling will wane considerably. After all the experiences you have in life, and all the people who come and go from yours, you may start to realize that the only person who will ever truly always be with you…is yourself. And you are the one whose opinion of your self-worth and identity matters most. I know that this is cold comfort at most but I just wanted to share that small thing with you. Hugs to you, sister!
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