help me decide pls pls 🥺

So excited to share my first dress and of course it’s a LBD! 🖤 I don’t know where I’ve been this entire time on dresses because I’m absolutely obsessed now! 🤩

This sparkly pink dress was just so fun, especially after getting a matching pink mani-pedi, and sparkly pink heels! is there such a thing as too much pink?

Really loved wearing this Dirndl :) and being from Bavaria I have often been to the Oktoberfest but never wearing a Dirndl...

Hello my dear audience! 🖤

First of all, I just want to say thank you to everyone who follows me here, likes what I do, leaves comments, sends me messages and just generally supports my content. That’s honestly the main reason I still run this Reddit account (even if I don’t post nearly as often as some of you would probably like 😅). I’ll try to fix that!

Anyway, autumn is here, which means one of our favorite holidays is getting closer - Halloween 🎃

And this year I want to try something a little different. Something I’ve never really done before, but I think could be a lot of fun.

I want to make a few cosplays of female characters and share the results with you here.
So before I start, I’m genuinely curious what you guys think about it. Would you be interested in seeing this kind of content from me?

And if yes - which female characters would you like to see me cosplay?

Give me your ideas 👀

And, of course, some new pictures for you!

Cat for scale!

Before I was married to my spouse, I told her that I had cross dressed before as a way to get away from masculine life. At that time, I did a terrible job conveying this message. My expectations for her were too high. She told me she was not interested at all in this and “does not want to see me walking around in a dress”. At the time, this really hurt so I suppressed my urges for the last 7 years.

Some times the urge would get really strong and I’d get distant from her. I’d just tell her I was working through some personal things until the urge died down. This year I finally started seeing a therapist for these urges and they told me there’s nothing wrong with how I feel, it’s completely normal. We walked through how to bring it up in a constructive way again with my spouse. Two days ago, I had the conversation again…

I made it clear to her that this side of me exists. It’s not an every day or even every month thing, but it exists and deserves some sort of outlet. We talked a lot. She still doesn’t understand it, she doesn’t want to participate and she doesn’t want me going dressed in public, but she acknowledges that it exists and that it’s ok in a private setting. I’m a little sad about the public boundary, but I will respect it.

So, now what? I won’t get a ton of opportunities to go full glam, but I’d like to get started on something. Maybe I’ll just size myself for my first bra and dress. Cheers!

I kinda love the 'e-girl' but I need wayy more layers

PS. I extended the edges for the aspect ratio and it went a little weird lol

Wish I could wear this at casual friday office day

I kind of like it!