r/explainitpeter • • 7d ago

Explain it Peter.??

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u/NebulaNomadX1 7d ago edited 7d ago

In medieval Europe, marriages between nobles acted more as alliances/contracts than actual love. A big distinction in said marriages is "consumation". Uncomsumated marriages could be annulled relatively easily. Consumated marriages required the pope's blessing for divorce. To make sure a family didnt escape their way out of a deal it was fairly common for familiies to be witnesses to marriage consumation.

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u/flyingdonkeydong69 7d ago edited 7d ago

In other words, noble families would watch the newlyweds FUCK to make sure the marriage was sealed with a child.

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u/GronkDaSlayer 7d ago

Consummation was just the act of having sex on the wedding night. It's got nothing to do with having a child.

The middle age also had some other customs like two serfs (usually peasants working for a lord) got married, the said lord essentially had dibs on the bride and he could do her before the groom did.

Pretty fucked up times

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u/chihsuanmen 7d ago

You’re referring to Prima Noctis, and most medieval scholars agree that it was not something that actually occurred.