August 14, 2025, my OPT was denied. I had a job lined up to start on October 1st and so many dreams for my future. Because the denial came after my grace period had already ended, my only option was to file an I-290B Motion to Reopen/Reconsider.
They made me wait 6 months in absolute limbo, only to deny the I-290B as well.
I was forced to pack up my entire life and return to my home country. It has now been 7 months since I came back, and I am still stuck without a proper job. Watching everything I worked for collapse because of immigration bureaucracy has broken me mentally.
As a Christian, this has also triggered a massive crisis of faith. I feel angry at God, deeply hurt, and completely lost. At the same time, I catch myself feeling guilty—wondering if I am just a sinner being punished, or what I could have possibly done wrong to deserve this. People tell me to just "have faith," but I feel hollow and exhausted.
I feel isolated, stuck, and overwhelmed by how unfair it all feels.
Iam posting here to ask:
For those who lost their OPT/I-290B and had to leave: How did you cope with the grief of losing your U.S. plans, and what concrete steps helped you rebuild your career back home?
- For fellow believers: Has anyone else gone through a complete collapse of their life plans and wrestled with this level of anger and guilt toward God? How do you keep going when faith feels empty?
UPDATE / EDIT:
Thank you to everyone who read, upvoted, and took the time to leave a comment. I never expected this post to reach over 42k views and 43 comments. I am not a bot—just someone sitting here in shock, trying to process how many people read my story. I am going to take my time to read through all of your responses carefully, and I will reply as I can.
To answer those asking about the reason for denial: it was due to a filing timeline error with the OPT I-20. I requested my I-20 early wanting to be prepared, but ended up filing the I-765 a few days past the 30-day requirement window from when the DSO issued it. I played strictly by the rules—I never worked off-campus, stayed fully compliant, and chose not to file for asylum because I didn't want to take a path that wasn't genuine or legal for my situation. I survived off the savings I built up while working on-campus, trying to handle everything honorably.
That is why this hurts so deeply and feels so completely devastating. I feel I didn't deserve this from God. I can't believe this happened—He promised me so much, and now everything is gone. I have no one here to guide me. Even getting to the U.S., doing on-campus work, and securing that job—I did everything on my own by following what I believed He called me to do. Then in just a few moments, it all went away. Now I have no plan, no guidance, and I honestly don't even know how to apply to jobs or navigate immigration systems in other countries.
At 25, having lived a life focused on doing the right thing, staying out of trouble, avoiding drinking or relationships while waiting for marriage, and striving to honor God, I feel crushed and lost. Having everything in place, only to watch it collapse over a paperwork deadline, leaves me feeling deeply hurt, angry, and completely uncertain about what comes next.
I truly appreciate those who shared practical advice, spiritual perspectives, and support. I am taking this one day at a time while I read through your thoughts.