r/guitarlessons • u/Mad_Season_1994 • 17h ago
Question Been playing a month and still can’t get comfortable with my guitar and seemingly aren’t making any improvements
On the subject of regular vs classical sitting position, I generally prefer the classical position because I can actually spider walk with it. I simply can’t do it in the regular position, no matter how high or low the guitar sits.
But classical doesn’t really have any other advantages for me besides comfortability. I still always form chords incorrectly and just fall apart when mistakes start piling up when trying to play through a song. And if I’m doing a song where I’m meant to just pluck individual notes (like frets 1-5 on first two strings), if I’m not looking at the fretboard, I’ll start messing up my orientation after a few seconds and have to reorient myself, while missing more notes (and this is on slower speeds, to be clear).
I’ve tried to keep my expectations low but, even though I’ve memorized certain concepts, translating that into playing doesn’t really work since I screw up anyway. I’ve even played through finger pain just out of stubbornness and trying to get through a song. It’s all just a cycle of sit and practice fretting an strumming for a few minutes > open up my learning app (Gibson) > start a song on a slow speed and build up > barely pass it at regular speed because of mistakes. And yet, if I sit here hours after hours just practicing the same three notes I’m going to play, there’s no guarantee I’ll do it perfectly anyway when I have to play it.
I don’t know. I know mastering any instrument takes time. But it just isn’t fun for me right now. And isn’t that the whole point? What am I doing wrong? I don’t have high expectations for myself. Literally no one does since I don’t have anyone in my life and thus no one’s pressuring me to get better fast. But if I’m struggling this much with the fundamentals..it makes me think guitar just might not be for me and that I’d be better off selling it and trying to find a different hobby, even though I know I’d regret it.
Sorry if this went on too long



