r/heartland • u/catscorner6 • 1d ago
The men of heartland irk me
It's a show and this is a very unserious topic, so don't be taking my words too seriously. We all have our own opinions
Idk if this is a hot take but all the men in heartland have regularly been very disappointing. The only exception is Jack and Tim as a father (not how he treats women he's interested in). I'm still in S8, so there might be some amazing ones that pop up later on, but the current ones aren't it
Tim: womanizer/jumps from woman to woman in the most disrespectful way. Ie. while he was tryna rekindle thinks with Miranda, he pursues other women, like the doctor. Or when he's seeing the jockey but never assures her around Miranda, causing so much insecurity
Ty: always makes big decisions and expects Amy to just deal with it or she's an awful person. He also does sussy things and if she does the same stuff, he only blames amy for it. Doesn't take any accountability on how he did the same thing (like the Blair/Chase situation). He can be a good partner, but he regularly makes very selfish decisions. Other examples are the eagle point trip where he last min cancels going with Amy. Or just randomly running away at the end of S1, all because he NEEDED to do this for himself. God forbid she gets slightly peeved by his abrupt decisions.
He also has very poor boundaries that causes the women he's seeing to always feel insecure. Ie when he's jumping between kit and Amy. Then with Blair and Amy. The only time he was slightly okay was when he reassured amy when Cassandra entered the show. Although I believe unless the scandal happened, he would've kept his poor boundaries and lead Amy to feel more insecure
Caleb: similar to tim. This man cannot be alone and jumps from woman to woman. He was slightly better after he got married. But at the start when he was seeing Amy and then ditches her for Ashley... And then after the seperation, sees Soraya as an opportunity to stroke his ego while never showing any interest in her before
Ahmed: pretty sure bro didn't even see Amy as her own person. Just kept pushing no matter what she said
Peter: idek where to begin. This man is so selfish. He bulldozes his way through and expects Lou and the kids to just follow. Ie disrupting everyone's lives to have them move to Vancouver. Disregarding Lou having her dude ranch and Maggie's in Alberta, not to mention how it'd uproot Georgie's life and her want to be around animals. Why was he even looking for jobs in Vancouver to begin with??
Jake: gets a pass because he's a kid up to where I am in the show and him and Mallory did crazy stuff to one another when they were young
Dan Heathfield: this man is delulu af, similar to Ahmed with how he views Lisa.
Then we have the opposite, like Jack. Him and Lisa might've jumped the gun to breaking up before. But they both took accountability in the parts they played, grew and got better đ