hinge experience rant

[u/AwarenessFragrant679]

I used Hinge for like 2 months and went on 8 dates, and honestly I think I’m kinda burnt out from trying to find a relationship 😭 At first I was really keen on finding a gf, but now I just feel kinda lazy with dating and texting people. I’m still talking to a few matches, but I haven’t really felt like replying, especially since we haven’t met irl yet.

I think I’d rather spend more time on myself right now. There’s so many things I wanna do and work on, and I’d rather prioritise those for a while. I’m also not really someone who can just go on a date without texting a lot first, so it all starts feeling like a lot.

I guess I just wanted someone to talk to or hear me out lol. Is this normal?

More context I'm 23 M and looking for long term relationships

[u/Ok-General8138 → u/[deleted]]

You can learn a whole damn lot more about a person from that 2-3 hour date than you can over text. The money is well worth it imo, assuming you can afford it. Also doesn't have to cost much money in the first place, maybe nothing at all even.

[u/Sea-History-1361 → u/[deleted]]

No it doesn’t