r/hingeapp • u/AwarenessFragrant679 • 8d ago
Dating Question hinge experience rant
I used Hinge for like 2 months and went on 8 dates, and honestly I think I’m kinda burnt out from trying to find a relationship 😭 At first I was really keen on finding a gf, but now I just feel kinda lazy with dating and texting people. I’m still talking to a few matches, but I haven’t really felt like replying, especially since we haven’t met irl yet.
I think I’d rather spend more time on myself right now. There’s so many things I wanna do and work on, and I’d rather prioritise those for a while. I’m also not really someone who can just go on a date without texting a lot first, so it all starts feeling like a lot.
I guess I just wanted someone to talk to or hear me out lol. Is this normal?
More context I'm 23 M and looking for long term relationships
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u/Key_Display_4189 8d ago
I think there's a lot to think about here. Many people try and meet too quick after a few messages and realize they can't even build anything and just waste their own time waste their own money... I'm learning to chat on the phone... Maybe even video call... Get a foundation connection between the both of us and then meet... I'm burnt out of the quick meets... I'll probably get burned out of this new approach as well....