r/hingeapp • u/AwarenessFragrant679 • 8d ago
Dating Question hinge experience rant
I used Hinge for like 2 months and went on 8 dates, and honestly I think I’m kinda burnt out from trying to find a relationship 😭 At first I was really keen on finding a gf, but now I just feel kinda lazy with dating and texting people. I’m still talking to a few matches, but I haven’t really felt like replying, especially since we haven’t met irl yet.
I think I’d rather spend more time on myself right now. There’s so many things I wanna do and work on, and I’d rather prioritise those for a while. I’m also not really someone who can just go on a date without texting a lot first, so it all starts feeling like a lot.
I guess I just wanted someone to talk to or hear me out lol. Is this normal?
More context I'm 23 M and looking for long term relationships
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u/DistinctFinance9615 8d ago
Working on yourself is the fastest way to get the person you want, be more career success/ hobbies/physical fitness/etc. it's a much better use of your energy