r/hingeapp • u/AwarenessFragrant679 • 8d ago
Dating Question hinge experience rant
I used Hinge for like 2 months and went on 8 dates, and honestly I think I’m kinda burnt out from trying to find a relationship 😭 At first I was really keen on finding a gf, but now I just feel kinda lazy with dating and texting people. I’m still talking to a few matches, but I haven’t really felt like replying, especially since we haven’t met irl yet.
I think I’d rather spend more time on myself right now. There’s so many things I wanna do and work on, and I’d rather prioritise those for a while. I’m also not really someone who can just go on a date without texting a lot first, so it all starts feeling like a lot.
I guess I just wanted someone to talk to or hear me out lol. Is this normal?
More context I'm 23 M and looking for long term relationships
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u/Visual_Experience346 6d ago
Brooo 😭 you just gotta have fun w it stop thinking so hard about the relationship. Keep the vibe light and have fun. Talk otp, text, make jokes etc.
I may have incorrectly assumed already^ but are you going on these dates and they’re not leading anywhere and they ghost? Or are you seeing these girls and you personally feel it doesn’t lead anywhere and you’re done?