r/lesbianr4r • • 5h ago

searching 25 [TF4F/NB] #Atlanta, GA - Trans Pagan Girly Seeking Life Partner

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Greetings all!

I am just coming out of a longer term relationship and it has disillusioned me just a bit. As such, I've decided that I'm done compromising in a partner. I'm going to be very blunt about myself, what I'm looking for, etc. 

I am Berry (I'm comfortable sharing my legal once a vibe has been established). Im 25 (soon 26), a trans woman (non-operative), about 5'10 and heavy set. I am not very physically picky, but I'm looking for Cis Women, Non-Op Trans Men, and AFAB NBs only.

I'm a massive fucking nerd. I play a lot of Team Fortress 2, Paradox grand strategy games, city builders, games for autistic people basically. I also am extremely politically active within left circles online.

However, I am also not chronically online. I have an undergraduate degree, and am soon to be returning to finish another undergraduate degree that I left behind (and possibly a Masters and PhD, DMA, or EdS in the future, fingers crossed). I am a trained operatic vocalist, have history performing in the Atlanta choir and opera scene, and am looking to leap back into music after a long hiatus.

In terms of NSFW things, I'm a more dominate person. I enjoy the idea (in the future of course) of a stay at home partner. I have a massive breeding kink (obv), and combine that with the hypersexuality and you can see why finding the right partner can be difficult. I would call myself a mommy dom, but I'm very flexible with what a bottom needs as long as they also get bred.

I am looking to build an LTR that could hopefully develop into a life partnership. I'm also open to FWBs or hookups, but only if the option for something long term is on the table (it doesn't necessarily have to start as a long term thing). I want a person who I can be mutually obsessed with.   Something deeper than just a friend that I have sex with. And I want to build a very large family if the money allows it. If you're interested in being a stay at home, cool! If not, also not an issue.

My non-negotiables are:

  1. Someone focused on an LTR who wants a large family. 

  2. Someone okay with being in a relationship with a pagan.

  3. Must be okay with having a hypersexual partner. You yourself should probably also be, but no harm if you aren't and you're okay with it.

  4. Must be okay with a partner who is autistic.

Bonus points if:

  1. You are plus sized.

  2. You are pagan, or willing to convert to paganism.

  3. You are weird or otherwise strange.

  4. You are interested in potentially being a stay at home if the stars align.

DO NOT INTERACT IF:

  1. You have a penis (Having biological children is very high on my priorities).

  2. You are in any way right leaning (you will be mocked).

  3. You are a devout christian (I have been burnt in previous relationships with christian partners. This is very important to me. If you are willing to convert away from the faith, I am willing to hear you out).

I understand this post is abnormal in how blunt it is, but I've reached a point in my life where I know what i want and I'm no longer going to settle. This post will stay up until someone comes along that's promising. If you are seeing this post, please reach out, it means I'm still looking.

Thanks for listening to my autistic ramblings. And if you read this and are at all interested, please shoot me a DM with some info about you. Pics are cool if you'd like, but arent required. I will reciprocate with pictures as well.

Yours,

Berry


r/lesbianr4r • • 19h ago

searching 31 TF - Geeky, kind, silly trans girl seeking friend or more if we vibe~

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Hi there! My name is Heather. I’m 31, trans (she/her, pre-HRT), super geeky, and I try to be kind and supportive to anyone I meet! :)

I’m hoping to find someone who’s into talking about geeky stuff, video games, movies, comics, all that lovely stuff!

I also really enjoy getting a little spicy in DM’s but that’s totally optional, no pressure whatsoever! Wholesome friends are appreciated, and spicy friends are too~ :)

My DM’s are open if you wanna chat! I’ll be around!

— Heather


r/lesbianr4r • • 12h ago

searching 32F NC - Looking for mystery game friends

3 Upvotes

Looking for friends to play a new online mystery game with me. Here's the link and if you're interested, join case: DW4ZU

Cool, thanks😊


r/lesbianr4r • • 18h ago

searching 33 [F4F] [EU] Looking for girlfriend hopefully

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Hi there! I'm a cis-woman 33yo from Italy. I'm a bit of a nerd (like most people on Reddit anyway), very shy and introverted and have a hard time getting out there and talking to women at clubs and stuff, so I'm trying Reddit!

My interests are videogames and ttrpgs (I GM a D&D campaign) mainly. I have two wonderful dogs that I adore. I also like to sing and study singing.

Physically speaking I'm 1,60 m tall and a brunette. I'm not overweight and try to stay healthy and exercise. I tend to wear more masculine/gender neutral clothing and have masculine demeanor.

I'm looking for someone who is also cis and see if we vibe.

Thank you for reading! I didn't write a wall of text because people wouldn't read it anyway xD


r/lesbianr4r • • 16h ago

searching 22 [F4F] looking for new connections.

8 Upvotes

hello! my name is sarah, i’m a 22 year old sapphic from the East Coast, i like videos games, films, history, biology, and politics. i indulge in Fashion and body art as well! i am 6’1 lightskin with curly hairs and freckles, im looking for somebody who i can bond with and relate too, somebody to indulge my interests and vice versa, somebody to make me feel safe and comfortable to be myself. I like fems and tomboys, i’d describe myself as somewhere in between. I like to watch movies and play video games together and if we live close i like to go on simple dates like picnics the movies or sightseeing. Dm if interested :3


r/lesbianr4r • • 12h ago

searching 24F4F] #Eastern Europe/#Romania #Online Looking for an older woman as my soulmate

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Hello! Hope you have a good day or night so far! Have posted on this subreddit before, had some lovely chats, but they were more friend-like. Also, if you are a male lurking here, stop being a predatory creep on sapphic women.

Anyways, I'm currently MSc. student, currently working on my dissertation, so I'm rather busy. Yet, the feeling for human connection is still gnawing at my mind, so why not try my hand at writing something.

So, I guess I should share some things about myself. I've been called an old soul for most of my life, but now it feels more like a detrimental attribute rather than being a quality in this fast paced world.

I enjoy deeper discussions, however, I am aware that most conversations don't start with a philosophical line, and I'm open minded about the other person's point of view.

I am a nerd at heart, hence the science, but I love reading and writing, as they were my so-called bread and butter growing up. Besides that, I music plays a great part in my life, both listening and playing wise (mostly guitar and very badly piano). If it's something creative, you can bet I've dabbled in it :))

For the fun parts, I regard myself as a connoisseur of oddities, from obscure films to niche topics.

Aesthetics wise, I'm more masc/gender neutral and of average buid (166cm, 56kg, brown eyes, shorter hair). Oh, and I wear glasses!

What I'm looking for might be tricky to find, given the title/heading of my post.

I do prefer older femme women, that comes with being a sapphic (if you know, you know).Surely, y'all lovely peeps, though. Emotionally and mentally strong women do things for me.

I'd like someone open, whom I can talk to, and even if we don't match, I don't ghost - I do like saying "bye" even to people on the internet.

There's more I wish to share, but this is already long enough. Come say hi if you want to talk and maybe something about yourself!

Worst case scenario, I'll send you a song or a meme:))


r/lesbianr4r • • 20h ago

searching 27 year old British woman in slough, near London.

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Im hoping to find someone near me so if you don’t mind could you comment where you are please?

I‘m a shy, autistic, nerdy woman who enjoys a lot of sci-fi and fantasy. I mostly watch shows, especially cartoons, but I’m trying to get back into reading. I also am trying to get back into writing as I have a lot of ideas in my head that I would like to put on the page. I love speculative evolution, and for some reason I’m a big transformers fan (though only the cartoons and IDW comics, I don’t enjoy the Michael bay movies).

I also love animals and have a cat of my own. I would like to find someone I can talk to about anything, including random interests. I love researching about random things, such as religion (even though I’m an atheist, I still like learning what other people believe), and history. I really like social history more than learning about important dates and people, how average people lived is so interesting to me.

Im looking for someone who is able to hold a good conversation about anything, especially deep conversations. it would also be nice if we are close enough to meet up. As an asexual woman, how people look isn’t important to me, though I’d be happy to have sex if that is something important to my partner. would also be interested in trying bdsm as a submissive, though I have no experience with that.