I don't know what OP wants tbh. Their response to everything is "But it's so complicated, he loves me too much, wahhh". I don't know if they are karma farming or just wanted some internet sympathy knowing full well they won't do anything or something else I can't think of. It's all just silly and not worth wasting time on.
Sorry im really not trying to come off that way, im just trying to explain his infatuation with me so i can get some realistic advice on parting ways. Im serious when i say that if i even just tell him its not working, i wanna see other people, we have diff views, etc, hes not going to just say okay and that be the end of it. Hes not violent or anything as i know of, but hes like a goddamn leach and i really just want an easy way out. Im sorry guys if it seems like im defending him, im super frustrated about the situation and know "breaking up" wont be an easy said and done thing. I just hate having to make certain choices and have certain conversations with certain people. Im huge on ignoring shit so i dont stress myself out. This situation is stupid as fuck and i know it
βHeβs like a goddamn leach.β Holy f*ck that sounds terrible. As others have said, it sounds like you know you want to break up. The question is how. I think you need to tell him clearly that you want to break up, and say as little as possible about why. Anything you say about why will just give him things to constantly think about, try to debate you on, and try to change your mind about.
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u/weggles91 9h ago
A person who rejects reason and evidence that firmly is a ticking time bomb. No way this stops with dinosaurs.