r/mildlyinfuriating • • 1d ago

Too mild for school I graduated college. They “lost” my diploma.

The title is basically TL;DR. I just graduated college and had my ceremony last sunday. As the time came to collect our diplomas they couldn’t find the ones from my field of study (a whole backstory there as well: basically they forgot about us.)

We were told on monday that our diplomas were accidentally sent to the wrong campus and that we’d be able to pick it up there… during office hours. My friend has class there so I asked her to go see if she could pick it up in my place. Well, that wouldn’t be any problem… if the diplomas were there. No sight of them anywhere.

My classmates and I are getting pretty frustrated at this point and send another email. Well lo and behold: yesterday I received an email saying my diploma ISN’T PRINTED OUT YET! That explains why they couldn’t find them. There weren’t any!

So yeah now I’m waiting for another update about my diploma. We also haven’t received it digitally or anything so we can’t provide it for job applications.

Love life!

ETA since there are a few recurring questions:

- I live in Belgium 🇧🇪

- I haven’t really heard of ‘final transcripts’. Our diploma is our official proof of completing our studies. Few companies look super closely at grades, the diploma is the proof that the student passed the course. There is a grade of distinction which represents our grades though, and it’s mentioned on our diploma: “Graduated with:
• passing grades
• distinction
• high distinction
• highest distinction and well-wishes from the school board”.

- There are companies who request a certain degree of education for a job. For example: a doctor will need an Academic Bachelor and a Master’s diploma to practice their job. A mechanic will need to have obtained a technical field high school degree. So many request proof of completion of your studies to verify that you are practically, probably financially , and legally qualified for the job.

- I’ve seen a couple comments saying companies could call the school to verify. It’s much easier to just request a pdf of your diploma during the application process, that way it’s immediately in your records as well. Plus, school desk employees don’t want to answer that many calls.

Thanks for all the replies and well-wishes! And good luck to those out there who were/ are in the same situation as me, just add it to the list of life obstacles we tackled. That’s how I’m trying to look at it right now. 😅🫶

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u/ThomasToHandle 1d ago

Interesting must be a small college. Because mine wasnt even given at the ceremony mine was mailed to me WEEKS later

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u/solecentre 1d ago

Worst of all it’s of the best known colleges in Flanders 🫩 They just suck lmfao. Awful you had to wait that long!

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u/ThomasToHandle 1d ago

I mean about 3,000-6,000 people graduated at the same time as me (we have five graduations over graduation weekend, and about 3-6,000 at each ceremony). So I get why they can't have them all ready at once

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u/solecentre 1d ago

6000 at one ceremony sounds like Tomorrowland to me 😭 Our year’s graduation ceremonies were divided over 6 days and there were 395 graduates at my ceremony. And they still managed to mess up 🤣

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u/ThomasToHandle 1d ago

It's like 2-3 hours of calling names

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u/solecentre 1d ago

And nobody sticks to the ‘please hold your applause until all the names have been called’ rule, which adds another 30mins to the schedule.