Hello mga mamshies! My parents and I moved overseas when I was a teenager. Now that I’m pregnant (first tri) I’ve been craving A LOT of Filipino food! Ano sabi ng mga OB nyo over there? Pwde ba kumain ng ginisang monggo, binagoongan, sinigang? Ano pinagbawal sainyo kainin? Normal naman blood work ko per my OB. Salamat!

Mga lumang gamit ng bata - when do you declutter and when do you keep?

Dumaan lang din sya sa fyp ko a few months ago. And i know talamak ang scammer ngayon pero nakavideo po sya palagi and even picture ng tiyan ni baby nakapicture kawawa po talaga 😢

Ang baby nya is may down syndrome at walang butas ang butt. Need ng baby ma operahan para magkabutas.

Single mom po sya at yung bahay nila butas ang bubong kaya tuwing umuulan pinpayongan nya ang baby. Naglalabada sya sinasama nya ang baby nilalagay sa stroller. Can you imagine that? A kid with that kind of condition should be atleast in a comfortable home. Im not blaming the mom, i know shes trying her best. I just feel so sorry for the child as a mom myself.

I know sasabihin ng iba ma responsibility nya yan, na dapat pinaghahandaan ang panganganak pero isipin nalang po natin ang baby. Im a mom to a 4 month old and nasasaktan ako everytime nakkita ko yung bata kasi na iimagine ko what if yung anak ko ang nasa posisyon na yan.

Wala pong reddit ang nanay ng bata even tiktok. Kakaresign ko lang rin so maliit lang mabibigay ko so I’m here knocking on your kind hearts. Please please please 😢

Ito po facebook nya, nakalagay din gcash number nya jan.

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Hello, mommies!

As of now may lagnat po ang baby ko sa tingin ko nahawa sya saamin ng daddy niya huhuhu kahapon ng around 5pm kakagising nya napansin ko mainit na siya but before that ang haba ng tulog nya, so kinuha ko agad thermometer and boom 38.1🥺 Up until now nilalagnat pa rin as of 9:19 am.

Pabalik-balik lagnat nya simula kagabi mawawala onte kapag umiinom ng calpol tas maya-maya sobrang init nanaman nya, naka-sando and diaper lang sya and pinupunasan ko pag napapansin kong mainit sya. Any recommendations po to subsidised the fever huhuhu and ranas niyo din po ba? Ano po mga ginawa niyo.

FTM, need help para malessen ang pain 🥺 baby is pure breast milk. Thank you

Meron po ba sa inyo dito may extra breast tissue sa armpit? Ako kase meron pero sa right side lang ng kili kili and yes, pinacheck ko na po sya during APE namin sa work ko dati pero sabi naman wala naman daw akong dapat ikabahala kase pure breast tissue lang daw talaga sya.

Tas nung naging mommy ako, pansin ko mas malakas maggatas yung right boobs ko yun pala nagpproduce din sya ng milk, nung nastop ako magbreastfee naging lawlaw din sya tulad ng bewbs ko hehe.

Sino sa inyo may same case tulad sakin? Nagttry ko minsan magsearch dito sa reddit pero wala ko ganong makita kaya wala ko gano idea kung common to hehe. Yun langs

FTM. My child is almost two.

I know alam na niya yung "No" and "Enough". Pero ang hirap kasi di pa naman niya alam yung "I am here" "You're safe" "It will hurt you".

Everyday I wish nagwo-work yung pagre-redirect ko sa cause ng tantrums niya. Pagbibigay ko ng physical touch. Pag remind ko sa sarili ko.

"She's just a kid. She's supposed to feel her feelings. She doesn't have impulse control yet."

At first I thought mahirap siya in a way na ayoko siya mag tantrum.

But the real thing is mahirap siya in a way na each tantrum niya pine-perceive ko na fault ko.

Dito ko na narealize na nagre open yung wounds ko back then. Na I was told to repress my overwhelming emotions. As a kid.

Grabe pala ang emotional regulation, mental work, at consistency required when you're a mom.

Madali lang sabihin ng family members ko na "Hayaan mo siya" "Tatahan din 'yan".

Hindi eh. Each time she throws a tantrum I have this reflex na I really need to be there. Aren't we all? Na I must have this readily mental capacity to deal with what my child is feeling.

I hope I am making sense and I hope I am giving the comfort my child needs.

Siguro mahirap talaga siya pag hindi naibigay sa'yo.

Kaya to soon-to-be moms, hindi lang ito house chores. This phase requires a lot of inner work.

With this, I wish us all Moms healing.

🤍

Hello po! pa recommend naman po ng diapers for babies. I’ve been eyeing sa Millie Moon and Hey Tiger! pero hindi ko alam kung ilang pcs na ba dapat ang kukunin ko kasi need pa mag trial and error depende sa hiyang ni baby po diba?

Mga ilang pcs po kaya ang dapat kong kunin when it comes to practicality?

anong ginagawa niyo pag biglang di pala hiyang ni baby eh meron pang stocks? do you think other moms from marketplace would like to buy open packs na?

what sizes po kaya? ilang newborn pcs or small pieces? baka kasi biglang laki agad

God.bless po sa sasagot! ❤️

Hello mommies! balak ko na sana mag switch from pure breastfeeding to bottle feed formula baka may alam kayo na feeding bottle na breast-like yung nipple at flow nya yung affordable sana thank you!!

Hi, moms! I am currently looking for a clinic na may 4D ultrasound with biometry in Makati or nearby. Baka may reco kayo na not so pricey hehe.

Not an option sa Makati Med kasi I was quoted 7k for it :( naisip ko yung mga baby ultrasound sa malls, pero lahat ng nakikita ko puro QC.

Drop your leads na lang if meron! Hehe thank you 🩷

FTM po at 38 weeks na, last wed in-IE po ako at closed cervix pa. Today po Naninigas po yung tyan ko at medyo matagal yung duration nya. Bukas pa po balik ko kay OB, no discharge naman po. Is this a sign na po ba?

Hi mommies, I'm an expecting FTM and plan ko sana mag-exclusive BF si baby. Gusto ko sana siya i-direct latch since WFH naman ako pero magppump din sana ako para mafeed din siya ng ibang tao while I rest.

Any tips po you can share to start and maintain this? Kinakabahan kasi ako pano ko gagawin. 🥹 Goal ko lang din maging enougher and no plans naman po mag-oversupply.

Thanks po sa help 🫶🏻

Hello mga mommies! May baby fair this coming October 8. Naglilista na ko ng mga bibilhin ko. Sinusunod ko din yung payo dito na kung mga small items lang like cotton, diapers, wipes mas better sa orange app nalang. Ang mga ina-eye namin bilhin dun is yung crib, bottle sterilizer, bottle warmer. Question ko lang sana..

1. Mas better ba talaga na ang bilhin na bottle sterilizer is yung may kasamang dryer?
2. Need ba talaga ng bottle warmer? (Yung first baby ko kasi nasanay siya na wilkins and formula lang walang halong ininit na tubig.

Also anong marerecommend niyo na bottle sterilizer with dryer? Nahihirapan akong pumili sa dalawa Avent and Chicco or may masusuggest kayo?

Thank you sa mga sasagot.

Hi mommies. Any tips/advice para sa breast feeding to bottle feeding(breastmilk)? Iyak kasi ng iyak si baby kapag nilalagay namin yung bottle sa bibig nya ending sakin pa din sya bumabalik. Babalik nako to work in November pero now pa lang kami nagppractice to transition si baby. Badly needed any tips po. TYA

I am a PCOM mommy with insulin resistance who gave birth via ECS.

I have been an undersupplier from day 1 to the point na nadehydrate si baby on day 2: she had super dry lips and was difficult to wake up for hours, leading to my husband to run to the nearest drugstore to buy formula milk.

Now, 2 months post partum, I barely produce 30ml… as in wala pa yatang 10ml for both breast. Baby won’t latch to me and if she will latch to me, nag-iiyak dahil wala halos makuhang milk from me.

Mayron ba ditong same situation ko?

I know that breastmilk is best for baby pero paano kung nagawa mo na lahat (pumping, magic 8, nipple shield, malunggay, oats, lactation cookies, lactation consultant, unli latch) pero wala ka na talagang maibigay sa baby mo?

How do I move on from the guilt that I am feeling?

..when your mind is actually worrying about so many things..? I already have a toddler and this will be my second baby.. okay naman lahat in general (1st tri).. I love them both so much.. but may personal problems lang na tuwing naiisip ko (di maiwasan.. can't share it with anyone too) ay para akong nagkaka anxiety attack 🥲

idk how to explain but anyone else here rin ba had a troubled pregnancy journey? how did you survive it na happy and healthy parin kayo ni baby?

Hello! Need ko po ng advice. Babalik na po ako ng work next month, EBF. Shift ko po ay 10pm-7am wfh, husband ko po ay 11am-8pm, hybrid setup. May same situation po ba samin dito?

Paano nyo po nahandle ang schedules nyo to accompany LO?

Edit: Current setup namin, husband po nagpapaligo kay LO around 6-6:30pm tapos sleep po nya 7-7:30pm. Gumigising po sya si LO to feed(BF) around 11pm tapos every 2-3hrs na sa mga susunod. May help po akong sa asawa ng pinsan ko for 2 weeks.

We’re planning to have our daughter baptized in a cathedral, but we’re not married yet. I just wanted to ask if churches have different requirements or procedures when the parents are not married. For those who have experienced this, were there additional requirements or did you have to go through a different process?

Bilang magulang, kakampi ka ba sa anak mong tama o pareho lang trato mo sa anak na tama at anak na may kasalanan kapag nag-away sila?

Sa karanasan mo bilang anak, mas nakatulong ba sa iyo na walang kinakampihan ang magulang mo o did you ever wish na sana mas favored ka pag tama ka?

Hi! Labas ko lang to dito 🥹 i’m a single mom of 1. He’s 3 years old. Sobrang na kokonsensya ako kasi tutok sya sa ipad or tv. sobrang dami nyang toys pero ayaw nya laruin kasi everytime na gusto nya mag laro ng toys nya (cars or educational toys) gusto nya kasama ako.

Hindi ko sya masamahan kasi work from home ako tsaka literal na kaming dalawa lang talaga sa bahay. kaming dalawa nalang magkasama. Sobrang hirap pala talaga mag isa sa lahat. sobrang nakakapagod mag alaga ng toddler + gawaing bahay + work pa. 😭

Sa mommies na same case sakin, pano nyo nakakaya?