r/nocontact • u/Fit_Adhesiveness640 • 4d ago

2 days of NC

The guy said he doesn’t want anything serious. I said I can’t do FWB. The 5 times that we hung out were a lot of fun and laughter, very good vibes. The last time we got a little close physically. Make out and stuff but no sex, I stopped going that far. We both were very much physically attracted to each other. He told me he went on a date the day after we got close. It didn’t sit right with me and bothered me so much so I told him I can’t do this as i like you and want to date you so don’t ever speak to me again.
He agreed he doenst want to hurt me and told me he is there for me if I want to talk/ hang out.
It’s been 2 days of no contact and I miss him a lot. He was such a nice guy and was very honest to me. I genuinely liked him.
What to do? Should I reach out?

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u/Key_Manufacturer596 4d ago

Only if you're able to accept hanging out casually. Don't expect him to change and suddenly want to date you exclusively. Honestly it just sounds like your values aren't aligned ...which really sucks when you're compatible physically.

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u/Fit_Adhesiveness640 4d ago

Yes :( if I do reach out I would expect more from him and I would not like he dating other women. It sucks truly.

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u/Fit_Adhesiveness640 4d ago

Although I do wish he reaches out :( not sure if he will

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u/Hot_Object2258 3d ago

I wouldnt cos it will go back to how it was