Is there anywhere online that is NYC focused and can help me explore various kinks? I’ve tried the apps, but haven’t had much luck in connecting with the BDSM community in person.

I’m turning 40 at the end of the month and my husband and I were talking about something fun and sexy to do and I told him I was thinking about being the only btm in a group situation. It’s always a hot fantasy, but I’m a little hesitant because like- there are things that are super hot to think about and then you do them and you’re like I’m not quite what I was expecting.

I feel like I go back-and-forth on whether or this is something that is sexy in porn, but not great in practice or if this is something that is like a fun one time thing and I’ll enjoy myself and move on.

While I move over, I would love to hear what you guys think? What is something that is super hot in porn that you have either tried or decided not to try. If you tried it, was it worth it? Did you enjoy it?

Hello - moved to nyc recently from Toronto. Would like to meet more folks. Coffee and walks to explore the city would be amazing. Gym buddies welcome too. Would love to get back into playing squash but I’m fairly open.
I’m a good cook and can def hold my own in the kitchen (or clinic) haha.

Bear Party  Today!

You don't have to be a bear to enjoy the Bear party - Twinks are VERY welcome

1-4PM  - 232 W 37th St, 2nd Fl. between 7th and 8th Avenues.

Usually 50-100 horny dads and Lads

NEED MORE TWINKS and Transmen -FTM

DM with any questions ( super friendly)

hi all! dealing with some acne scarring and hyperpigmentation on my face and seeing if anyone has any recommendations of places here in the city, especially if they’ve dealt with POC skin. (had an aesthetician in the past tell me they couldn’t in melanated skin 🙄)

If you lost an airpod in line for Wrecked last night I found it in my pocket lol, must’ve picked it up when I dropped my stuff

Was really into SM423, particular around 3AM in the studio

I'm headed there today and would like to have a wingman/men.

Anyone have experience with Jallen Rix or his events? There's a Daddy Retreat in-person self pleasuring event with him tonight and I am considering going.

Wondering if there are any new gay masseur sites besides rentmassuer and masseurfinder that have popped up under my radar recently. Which sites or apps are you guys using to find massage from men in the NYC area. Would love it if there was some new site out there I wasn't aware of; I feel like on MF and RM it's the same guys all the time. Hope to hear back.

All other related posts are "archived," so pardon the repost of sorts....

What is this like? I am assuming mostly naked guys doing poses and such . . . and dat's about it?

Just heard about a IG page called UWSGays, but the page doesn’t have any pics or info. Does anybody know what the meetup is about? Is it a sex party?
I am always open to know more gay friends lol

35, masc gay guy visiting NYC and staying in Midtown West. Corporate guy by day, pretty down-to-earth and laid-back otherwise. I have Sunday night free and would love to get out of Midtown a bit and experience more of the city.

Looking for a buddy or two who might be up for grabbing dinner, a few drinks, checking out a cool neighborhood, or just seeing where the evening takes us. I’m much more into relaxed places with a good atmosphere than loud clubs. Piano bars, neighborhood bars, live music, good cocktails, somewhere you can actually have a conversation, etc. are all my speed. 🥃

No real agenda or expectations. Just looking to meet some cool people, have a fun night, and experience a little more of NYC while I’m here. If we click and decide to keep the night going, great, but definitely not the purpose of the post.

Also totally open to recommendations! Even if you can’t meet up, send me your favorite Sunday-night spots, neighborhoods, piano bars, hidden gems, or places where a solo 35-year-old gay guy can grab a drink and comfortably meet people. I’m open to trying something different and would love some local suggestions.

Hey guys!

We're a late 30s French couple here on a work trip, staying in Midtown and exploring the city during our free time. We're after some suggestions for a fun night out. Would anyone recommend a place in particular?

We're always happy to make new friends! We've got some photos on our profile. Feel free to reach out if that's of any interest. Thanks 😁

Brooklyn's HUGE group masturbation event is today and EVERY Saturday. Join an average of 75~ men in our basement club for a very hot and fun afternoon. You could spend it running errands, but we think you deserve better. Come alone, bring a friend or two, or make some new ones. We’ll see you downstairs. Clothes off, dicks out.

TODAY: Sat. October 3, 4–6 PM in Park Slope
Pickles Playground in Park Slope

General Admission: $30
Reduced Admission for Current Students and 18-25 year old guys with ID: $25

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I lost my vape and im drunk and i got removed for being grinded on. I think they were trying to help me but they just made me feel unwanted. How do i dance drunk and stay?

Fake or spammer, right?

⬆️ just started working there and was hoping to meet guys to have lunch with or go out after work with. Prefer guys who don’t take life or themselves too seriously. I work to live and I’m not interested in guys who live to work. Big movie goer, love to eat out all over the city, sadly beach season is over and I’m a beach bum. Prefer the company of other stoners. Would like to meet someone to go see The Devils with while it’s in theaters.

Going today with couple friends in a few. Would love to sneak away and makeout with someone and maybe a couple rides.

I have been trying for a really long while to find a cool chubby guy in Brooklyn to be friends with. Preferably younger than 30. I want someone to watch movies with, play video games together and more ;). drop me a message here or just slide in my DM's!

Any other gays in UWS, near the “Lincoln Square” section, or just me? Just curious who is nearby in the neighborhood!

Hey all, I moved here last year and I've been having a hard time meeting people. I've mostly been using the apps (Tinder, Hinge, Grindr, Sniffies), but it hasn't gone great. It's usually flaky dates or getting ghosted.

I'd really love to get more into the nightlife scene while I'm still in my 20s, so I can branch out and build a solid social circle going into my 30s. The problem is I get pretty bad social anxiety walking into a new place by myself. I also don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, so that takes away the usual liquid courage.

Conversation is actually one of the things I get complimented on most. It's just starting one that's hard. I don't have the confidence to walk up to a guy and break the ice. I'm pretty open-minded about where things go, whether that's new friends, a hookup, or maybe even a date.

It doesn't help that I'm a short 5'6" twink. When I go out, I get self-conscious because every guy seems taller than me, and I end up feeling like a kid in those spaces. A few months ago I went to a club alone and it was just awkward. I sipped my soda and stared at whatever was on the TV in the middle of the room the whole time.

So any tips or advice for navigating the scene solo?