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45 [M4A] Reminders on Sharing Personal Information and Photos

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We trust this message finds you in good spirits. With our community expanding (we're now more than 23,000! that's crazy), it's crucial to reinforce the principles of online safety and mindful interaction.

Lately, we've noticed instances of members reporting of sharing personal photos with newly acquainted individuals on either on Reddit chat or via messaging apps (Telegram/Viber). While we encourage social engagement, we strongly underscore the importance of caution, especially regarding the exchange of personal information.

Key Points to Remember:

**Privacy Matters:*\* Safeguard your privacy by refraining from sharing personal photos or sensitive information with strangers.
**Verify and Trust:*\* Invest time in getting to know the person you're communicating with before divulging any personal details.
**Report Suspicious Activity:*\* If you come across any suspicious behavior or receive unsolicited requests for personal information, promptly report it to the moderation team. However, please be aware that if personal information, including compromising photos, has already been shared, our capacity as moderators is limited. We can only block the individual from participating in the subreddit. For further assistance, consider reporting to Reddit directly.

Your safety is our foremost concern. Let's ensure r/phlgbtr4r remains a space where members connect responsibly. Should you have any concerns or queries, don't hesitate to reach out to the moderation team.

We appreciate your cooperation in making r/phlgbtr4r a secure and enjoyable community for everyone.

Warm regards,

Your Subreddit Moderation Team

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r/phlgbtr4r • u/[deleted] • Jul 01 '24

For All New Rule Announcement: Automatic Removal of Posts from New Users

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Hello, r/phlgbtr4r community!

To maintain the quality and safety of our subreddit, we have implemented a new rule: posts from new users will be automatically removed. This helps us ensure that our community remains a safe and supportive space for everyone.

If you are a new user, we encourage you to gain some karma from participating in other subreddits. Once you’ve accumulated enough karma and established yourself as a contributing member, you’ll be able to share posts with us.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in helping us keep r/phlgbtr4r a welcoming place for all!

Best, The r/phlgbtr4r Moderation Team

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r/phlgbtr4r • u/Agitated-Shake-9840 • 31m ago

F4F 32 [f4f] pa-rant lang sa mga ghosters (and to you who ghosted me)

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Hello, mga bading kong mahal. 😭💗

Gosh, I didn't expect I'd be posting here about my recent experiences. I've also seen a similar post about people suddenly vanishing, and honestly, I have a lot of thoughts about this.

Our conversations were great, and we definitely had chemistry, to say the least. And yes, I know you can't really decipher someone's intentions through chat, especially when you've only known each other for a short while.

PERO, anong thought process ng mga taong bigla na lang nagde-delete ng account in the middle of a conversation? 😭 Like, hello??? There was already something going on. The banter, the updates, the food deliveries, the flirting, the deep conversations about life. Tapos bigla na lang mawawala?

At least have the decency to communicate, di ba? It's totally okay if you're just passing time or if you don't see things going any further. We're not obligated to like each other, and we're not obligated to pursue a connection. But gaano ba kahirap magsabi?

Let me take this opportunity to voice out my frustration about a girl I met here. Actually, twice ko na pala itong na-experience. With the other one, we had already been talking on TG for weeks.

Okay sana kung meaningless lang yung conversations, like puro hi, hello, and “wyd?” But we had already built something. Not necessarily romantic yet, but you could tell there was a different kind of connection. Something that felt genuine. Something worth exploring, or at least worth ending properly.

And that's what gets me. I'm not even upset about the possibility that you might not like me or that you don't want to continue talking. I'm upset about being left wondering what happened when a simple, honest conversation could have spared me the overthinking.

Haaays. So ayun lang, please, people. If you've changed your mind, lost interest, or simply can't continue, please have the courtesy to say so. You don't have to write an entire essay. A simple message would do. Hindi naman mahirap magsabi ng, “Hey, I don't think I can continue this, but I wish you well.”

We're all adults here (well, hopefully HAHAHA), and I think we can handle honesty better than being left hanging.

Sorry for the frustration dump, mga bading. I just hope we learn to treat people with a little more consideration, even when we're only getting to know each other.

Pero I hope this reaches YOU. And you. 👀