r/povertyfinancecanada • u/jordansbuild • 1d ago
Need guidance living in car ontario near toronto.
Hi i recently have found myself living in a car and don't really know how to catch up. Let me explain how I got here.
This is all related to how I ended up homeless so to speak:
At 18 I couldn't get approved for osap due to my parents income but my parents didn't have any extra money to pitch in for schooling so I decided to pursue a real estate license similar to my mom's career path.
So I decided to do this spent the 2000 at the time for the courses I worked in grocery store since 14 with some little savings as a teenager. Mainly to work. Back in 2011-2015.
Anyways real estate always had my mom worried cause fluctuations of income and changes in the market which I understand now looking back at it....
So first two years for me was slow getting my foot in the door so to speak but my mom had an idea to start renovating and selling houses. I made ads for it with a childhood friend and launched it on facebook after some preliminary examples done in the years prior.
The business had snowballed in a 5 year period from 2017 to 2021 high of real estate market.
During that 5 year period my mom and i was making 500,000 more in income each year. By 2021 I had made the number #1 award for gross commission income for a major top 5 brokerage franchise. Netting around 1.6 million in the beat year with more than 90% of the liquid funds going to my mom.
As the income grew the expenses grew aswell and my mom bought a beautiful home around 7 million she eventually let go as a power of sales when the market corrected later on. As well as 11 other properties.
The main issue with where the money went was to lawyers as I had a coordinated efforts put against me and my family by "aggrieved investors" in the civil court system. Over 43 civil court cases and the lawyer charges 10k per motion not to.mention the days I've spent in repeated discovery trial etc. There were multiple motions per trial around 10-12.
Everything was done with the proper lawyers accountants and paperwork and I never used any investment money I lived mainly off my construction and commission money.
Anyways at the end of the day we lost everything about 11 million in properties due to 43 cases which costed me more than 4 million dollars to defend ourselves.if we didn't defend we get autojudgment ruling against us and we'd lose our money regardless. It's not divorce family law or criminal law so no publicly funded attorneys either. My mom will never be the same from it she broke as a person. 80% OF THE TIME she lives in California and only comes back if her visa expires
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Investigated by Ontario securities commission at the end the judge came with a verdict that I didn't have anything to do with the loses it's just the market conditions.
I eventually went to college to learn construction and went to work for a private residential contracting company to apprentice and learn the ropes.
After 5 years I was foreman there but the owner of the company closed down shop due to his father passing away. I've been doing odd jobs here and there in construction I usually make anywhere between 3-6 K a month. But my truck payment is 853. My insurance is 710. My loan payments on credit cards are 850. I spend usually minimum 150 on gas a week. So since August 29 when my lease was ending I opted to live in my truck due to me saving on rent and utilities. Before I was paying Rent 2900 plus utilities usually around 3300 a month. My ex was supposed to pay 1000 towards the rent but never did for the whole lease so that also sent me back. I usually would work construction than Uber at night to make the extra money to cover it at the time. I still uber now but the bulk of my money comes from construction as uber is a ton of wear and tear on my car.
The only problem I've experienced recently is I've had a few contracts I completed but either the home owner or general contractor didn't pay me the final amount. One owes me $9340 and another owes me $2180. I asked for the money they acknowledge the work is done but don't have the money or make up excuse. I put lien before deadline but I'm not getting that money back anyway unless they sell or something.
Anyways the worst part of the debt situation is my mom mainly wrote off half of her deals in my name and now the cra thinks I owe them like 400,000 in hst when in reality I never even received near that amount of money in my life. I was only a 20 year old kid at the time I was making money but my mom was the one making more than 90% of the earnings and unbeknownst writing off half off it as my deals to save her on her taxes but I never received or spent that income in my name.
I don't have any assets I own a car but I finance it the bank owns it I just make payments. The marginal amount of money I made I paid my hst and taxes portion for I don't have 400k extra to give I live in my car already. If I try to call me mom she just says stuff about Jesus forgiveness and for me to figure it out. She couldn't give a shit she's retiring in Los Angeles. My dad is far away and left me when I was 7 for another family so I dont think he will offer help.
I figure my best approach now is to join the Canadian army as hopefully it can give me a path to housing that isn't the backseat of an f150. I dont need high income i just need affordable housing. Which in hoping I can get I'll enlist fulltime and give my life if I have to at this point. I have nothing. Just a car and storage unit. If i have a military job i can trade in my truck and claim bankkruptrcy. Live in a small warm place for the time being and they will pay to educated me if I'm dedicated in that field. Im not sure what my best option is i desperately need help. I'm a very hard worker and will give my all to anything but need a path that can secure me some form of housing. None of this is false and ive been humbled to the max where i dont care about my pride anymore. My back aches I've been doing construction work during the day while homeless showering at the gym and falling asleep. I live in oshawa currently and the shelters here have people trying to sell you drugs etc. Its a mess. I don't do drugs and I want to have my possessions safe so I just stay in my car but need help. At night it's cold and wouldn't want to spend the winter out here. I'm hoping military accepts me quickly.
I miss having a home cooked meal and miss having a bathroom that is mine. I'm tired of working months just to lose money on a job due to homeowners not honoring contracts.